misscariage & abortion

[virg27star]

Hi Im new to the site found. I it on my search for some answers.

I apologise if this has been covered before but I would love an opinion on something that just I just thought about this week.

Sadly In 2012 I had an abortion, (ashamed upset to say it out loud and that it happened). I fell pregnant in what I felt became a dangerous situation for myself and unborn child. I know that is a taboo/touchy/upsetting subject but please hear me out.
Moments after the abortion I felt instant regret and wished and prayed they still were with me. I cried and grieved even though I did it for the safety or protection of my Child. Weeks after I prayed they'd still exist.

I became depressed for a year or so. But somehow this unborn child wether it be me imagining them or not I found some kind of strength from them. I sensed what I assumed was a girl and dreamt of them here and there. but I felt complete again knowing that somewhere they were out there and. I also believed they would find another family...

Fast forward to 2014, which was the last time I sensed the energy of this unborn baby. I fell pregnant with my now partner and we had a beautiful daughter in August 2015.

As my daughter has become older.. 3 lol... she is the spitting image of my close friends daughter who is 7, (looks, nose, eyes, laugh, very smart and bright) and they have only met the once... and then to a 2nd cousin of mines daughter they could be twins...personality and looks.. but I guess thats partly family.....

Then a few weeks my closest and oldest friend (now in our 30s') recently asked me wow isn't your baby girl like our old class mate..... how funny she laughed abit to much for it to be a compliment but I see it too......

Lastly I came across a young tv star who reminds me of my daughter as much as the 3 i've mentioned... .. In disbelief of similarities between this child actress. .., I typed in her name online to see her age and it came up with her birthdate.... '27th of August'!!...

Well these are the birthdates of all above.. but one! All born 27th of August minus a September 15th (my friends 7 year old)... .... So I was shocked because My due date for the child I sadly aborted was August 27th!!!.. strangely also the anniversary of my mums passing

My daughter who is now 3's due date was the '27th of July 2015'.... however she arrived the night of August 1st

... I read yesterday that dates and times or coincidences can be a sign of reincarnation.
& I never dreamt of that little girl again... The last time I saw her was almost a week or 2 before I conceived my 2015 baby. I saw a brief vision with a shadow of a girl pop round the door, but disregarded it as wishful thinking due to the height of what I briefly saw.... I thought couldn't of been that tall at 2 and a half... well my daughter who just turned 3 is a lot taller than the girl I envisioned at the door....

Sp experts or anyone with experience in this field... am I just making this up or could it be possible, im hoping so xxxx

 

[KenJ]

Hi vig27star, I'm sorry that you have had no responses for two weeks, I guess that no one here claims to be an expert. I do want to welcome you, although belatedly, to the forum.
I personally do not have any information to offer nor do I have date coincidences that would seem significant concerning births.

 

[SeekerOfKnowledge]

Welcome to the forum, vig27star!
As Ken said, people probably don't feel they can help you. That, and some (like me) also might be busy with Christmas preparations which is not really helpful when trying to find the right words...

 

[virg27star]

Aw thats, ok.. Thankyou for both posting a reply. It was a long shot anyway. Seems quiet an active forum so hopefully I can join and learn abit more elsewhere in other posts. Thanks again @SeekerOfKnowledge & @KenJ

 

[Sparrow]

Hello, there’s a midwife Ina May Gaskin who wrote a book Spiritual Midwifery and I do remember a story in there about a mom who was upset she had aborted in the past and her little girl bringing it up and telling her not to be sad because she was that baby. Highly suggest the book.

 

[Li. La.]

Thank you for sharing your sad yet beautiful story. Yes, it is possible I think that the one who was aborted was later born into a new body close to you, we travel in soul groups so even if we will be apart for some time we will get together again - at least that is what I have read.

 

[DiscoKitten]

Hi and welcome to this site! Many times when children are aborted or miscarried they reincarnate to the same mother at a time when she is ready to receive them. There is nothing to be ashamed of in terms of having an abortion. You did the best you could at the time. It is far better to have a child when you are ready, when you can provide them a safe and loving home than to have a child who will grow up under extremely difficult circumstances.

 

[The Traveler]

Hi Im new to the site found. I it on my search for some answers.

I apologise if this has been covered before but I would love an opinion on something that just I just thought about this week.

Sadly In 2012 I had an abortion, (ashamed upset to say it out loud and that it happened). I fell pregnant in what I felt became a dangerous situation for myself and unborn child. I know that is a taboo/touchy/upsetting subject but please hear me out.
Moments after the abortion I felt instant regret and wished and prayed they still were with me. I cried and grieved even though I did it for the safety or protection of my Child. Weeks after I prayed they'd still exist.

I became depressed for a year or so. But somehow this unborn child wether it be me imagining them or not I found some kind of strength from them. I sensed what I assumed was a girl and dreamt of them here and there. but I felt complete again knowing that somewhere they were out there and. I also believed they would find another family...

Fast forward to 2014, which was the last time I sensed the energy of this unborn baby. I fell pregnant with my now partner and we had a beautiful daughter in August 2015.

As my daughter has become older.. 3 lol... she is the spitting image of my close friends daughter who is 7, (looks, nose, eyes, laugh, very smart and bright) and they have only met the once... and then to a 2nd cousin of mines daughter they could be twins...personality and looks.. but I guess thats partly family.....

Then a few weeks my closest and oldest friend (now in our 30s') recently asked me wow isn't your baby girl like our old class mate..... how funny she laughed abit to much for it to be a compliment but I see it too......

Lastly I came across a young tv star who reminds me of my daughter as much as the 3 i've mentioned... .. In disbelief of similarities between this child actress. .., I typed in her name online to see her age and it came up with her birthdate.... '27th of August'!!...

Well these are the birthdates of all above.. but one! All born 27th of August minus a September 15th (my friends 7 year old)... .... So I was shocked because My due date for the child I sadly aborted was August 27th!!!.. strangely also the anniversary of my mums passing

My daughter who is now 3's due date was the '27th of July 2015'.... however she arrived the night of August 1st

... I read yesterday that dates and times or coincidences can be a sign of reincarnation.
& I never dreamt of that little girl again... The last time I saw her was almost a week or 2 before I conceived my 2015 baby. I saw a brief vision with a shadow of a girl pop round the door, but disregarded it as wishful thinking due to the height of what I briefly saw.... I thought couldn't of been that tall at 2 and a half... well my daughter who just turned 3 is a lot taller than the girl I envisioned at the door....

Sp experts or anyone with experience in this field... am I just making this up or could it be possible, im hoping so xxxx

Greetings miss. I apologize if I have just read it now, I have some very pressing personal problems. Well, personally I don't approve of abortions, but my opinions don't count for anything, and I don't want to make a controversy about the ethics of the thing that would be off topic. nor do I have the right to judge. I can only tell you that there are no absolute certainties, because it is not easy to have verifiable and indisputable facts about reincarnations. the only two things that can really indicate a reincarnation are - very strong deja vu and feelings of familiarity towards faces, people and places where you have never been. - atavistic memories, unconscious atavistic fears, dating back to very early childhood, usually from 2 to 7 years of life, where children speak spontaneously, referring to facts, things and events that they cannot otherwise know about things that really happened to people who really existed and really death before their birth. the casuistry in this sense is quite numerous, even if reincarnation is often a phenomenon that seems to happen above all to people who die a violent death. but also an abortion I think it can be considered a violent death, also because I believe that every person who is born is born for a very specific purpose and for a precise plan of the sky.

it would seem absurd that divine justice does not come to the aid of souls who could not be born due to various circumstances, or who died before completing their earthly task, or who were born dead or dead in the first years of life. so why not? unfortunately I can neither deny nor confirm.

I have no direct way of knowing if his are just impressions given by his strong desires or if a metempsychosis of this young and little soul has really occurred. sometimes astrology can give some clue to this effect, although I admit that I am very reluctant to make such a check in such a delicate circumstance. you suspect your son is the rebirth of the lost son, right?

Well, here ... we should check the exact moment of the abortion and that of the birth of the new baby and make a synastry between the two. if there is a conjunction that links pluto, sun and lunar nodes then, from an astrological point of view, it is a pretty strong possibility. or in any case it indicates that something has migrated between the two individuals.

 

[Speedwell]

Well, here ... we should check the exact moment of the abortion and that of the birth of the new baby and make a synastry between the two. if there is a conjunction that links pluto, sun and lunar nodes then, from an astrological point of view, it is a pretty strong possibility. or in any case it indicates that something has migrated between the two individuals.

Yes, I know this is your belief system. But really, it is only opinion, not something to be asserted as fact. This is after all a past-life forum, it is not obligatory to partake of astrology, it is optional here.

 

[The Traveler]

Yes, I know this is your belief system. But really, it is only opinion, not something to be asserted as fact. This is after all a past-life forum, it is not obligatory to partake of astrology, it is optional here.

Yeah, you right and that is also a too much delicate thing.
sorry i can't help for that
I can only hope virg will be a nice mom

 

[Morgan VK]

Hi Im new to the site found. I it on my search for some answers.

I apologise if this has been covered before but I would love an opinion on something that just I just thought about this week.

Sadly In 2012 I had an abortion, (ashamed upset to say it out loud and that it happened). I fell pregnant in what I felt became a dangerous situation for myself and unborn child. I know that is a taboo/touchy/upsetting subject but please hear me out.
Moments after the abortion I felt instant regret and wished and prayed they still were with me. I cried and grieved even though I did it for the safety or protection of my Child. Weeks after I prayed they'd still exist.

I became depressed for a year or so. But somehow this unborn child wether it be me imagining them or not I found some kind of strength from them. I sensed what I assumed was a girl and dreamt of them here and there. but I felt complete again knowing that somewhere they were out there and. I also believed they would find another family...

Fast forward to 2014, which was the last time I sensed the energy of this unborn baby. I fell pregnant with my now partner and we had a beautiful daughter in August 2015.

As my daughter has become older.. 3 lol... she is the spitting image of my close friends daughter who is 7, (looks, nose, eyes, laugh, very smart and bright) and they have only met the once... and then to a 2nd cousin of mines daughter they could be twins...personality and looks.. but I guess thats partly family.....

Then a few weeks my closest and oldest friend (now in our 30s') recently asked me wow isn't your baby girl like our old class mate..... how funny she laughed abit to much for it to be a compliment but I see it too......

Lastly I came across a young tv star who reminds me of my daughter as much as the 3 i've mentioned... .. In disbelief of similarities between this child actress. .., I typed in her name online to see her age and it came up with her birthdate.... '27th of August'!!...

Well these are the birthdates of all above.. but one! All born 27th of August minus a September 15th (my friends 7 year old)... .... So I was shocked because My due date for the child I sadly aborted was August 27th!!!.. strangely also the anniversary of my mums passing

My daughter who is now 3's due date was the '27th of July 2015'.... however she arrived the night of August 1st

... I read yesterday that dates and times or coincidences can be a sign of reincarnation.
& I never dreamt of that little girl again... The last time I saw her was almost a week or 2 before I conceived my 2015 baby. I saw a brief vision with a shadow of a girl pop round the door, but disregarded it as wishful thinking due to the height of what I briefly saw.... I thought couldn't of been that tall at 2 and a half... well my daughter who just turned 3 is a lot taller than the girl I envisioned at the door....

Sp experts or anyone with experience in this field... am I just making this up or could it be possible, im hoping so xxxx

I know this is a very old post BUT I do "feel" like my son who is 12 now, is my deceased husband whom I lost very young in 2008. Just too many similarities and my son and I are like twins. Anyhow, I also had an abortion at 15 years old... and cried and wept and prayed for my baby to come back to me later... the catch is that he was born with Aspergers albeit he is quite talented and very mature. A mixture of karma and reincarnation going here is what I feel inside, and am happy too! All the best!

 

[Morgan VK]

Hi and welcome to this site! Many times when children are aborted or miscarried they reincarnate to the same mother at a time when she is ready to receive them. There is nothing to be ashamed of in terms of having an abortion. You did the best you could at the time. It is far better to have a child when you are ready, when you can provide them a safe and loving home than to have a child who will grow up under extremely difficult circumstances.

Exactly! Thank you for stating this!