My Daughters New(?) Friend

[Soulfulwings]

Hello Everyone,

I think my 6 year old daughter has met someone from her past life....someone who was obviously close to her.

I wanted to ask if there are certain things to look for or questions I could (or should) ask her.

The connection between them is so very very close. And they only met this year (on the playground). When I visited her school one day...The teachers even asked me about it.

They are not in the same classroom...so they only meet on the playground. Of course it is childlike interaction....but there is an obvious connection.

He brings her a flower every day (*Smile* It's so sweet). As any mom would do, I asked her if he was her boyfriend and she said "no,..he's just my friend.".

At the beginning of school, his teacher asked him if he knew my daughter before coming to school and he told her "no, she's just my friend."

I'm not concerned or worried about this friendship. They both seem very "matter-of-fact" about their feelings. It's just so very "different" when I see them together. Because as an observer, you can sense they share something special.

Any thoughts?...I'd love some insight.

Blessings,
Soulfulwings

 

[deborah]

Soulfulwings,

You're so sensitive -- and your observation so sweet! Your daughter is lucky to have a mother so aware. *S*S*S*S*S

Your story reminds me of a time (about 10 years ago) when I was on a field trip with my sons second grade class. After lunch, one of the boys jumped up and said "Come on Brain..let's go play -- we have our lives to live all over again."

I imagine that your awareness in watching them, gives you chills, and brings a joy to your heart that cannot be expressed with words. I know that was my experience above....no words needed..it's an inner realization.

Thank you for sharing Soulfulwings. (I love your name)

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Love and Light,
Deborah

The soul's Center...is God.

 

[Kelly]

Hello again Soulfulwings

What a beautiful and sweet post….it must be quite a amazing sight to witness such familiarity and ease between the two of them

As to suggestions…I would say keep watching and learning….children reveal a lot of things in their day to day play and imagination…watch how they interact, how they communicate with each other, etc, etc…and journal to your hearts content, and you may begin to pick up little notes to research further…and also things to ask about if your daughter starts talking about him in the time to come


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Lots of Love
Kelly

 

[Soulfulwings]

Dearest Deborah and Kelly,

Thank you so much for the warm welcome back!

Deborah...Thank you for also sharing your own special reflection. Kids are so increadibly awesome. They teach me something everyday (whether I like it or not! *lol*)

Blessed are those who listen to a child's innocent wisdom and learn from it.

I can't help but want to understand more about my daughter and her friend's specialness. *Sigh* But I'll have to wait it out and see what unfolds.

Kelly...Thank you for your suggestions. I had not thought of keeping a journal regarding this. I will begin one now.

The way that my daughter and her friend communicate is indeed different. That is what caught my attention, as well as, their teachers. I'm so glad the teachers approached me about it...because it's kind of like a confirmation to my own "inner knowing".

I appreciate the kindness and wisdom both of you have offered me. I will ask more question if the need should arise.

Thank you for letting me share and please forgive the speed-typing-typo's.

Blessings,
Soulfulwings