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My newborn son seems to have a "connection" to my mother-in-law

KimD

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My son Anthony is our fifth child. He was a "surprise" baby, but when we told my mother-in-law about the pregnancy, she said she wasn't surprised at all. She said she had dreamed I would get pregnant again and she really felt this baby would be a boy. Later in the pregnancy, she said she really felt that she had an unusual connection to this baby. She said she felt that his name was Anthony, although of course, we could name him anything we wanted. To my surprise, we had already decided to name him Anthony. I tried to find another name, just because the whole thing seemed wierd, but only the name Anthony seemed fitting.

He was born 11/20/00 and my mother-in-law came to see us in the hospital that day. To my amazement, the minute he saw her, he gave her this huge, huge smile!! I haven't ever seen a baby smile like that until about 4-6 weeks before and here he was, smiling his head off at my mother-in-law when he was less than 24 hours old. A few weeks later, he started cooing at her. Now he coos and smiles at everyone, but for weeks, he only smiled and cooed at either her or me. He seems to "know" her.

She has told me again that he is a very, very special baby. This is a woman who is very dedicated to all of her grandchildren, but he seems to be someone very special to her, even before his birth. :-)

Kim
 
Hi Kim,

What a special 'happening' for you and your family! There is no doubt in my mind that 'children' return to us - that they are loved ones from 'before'.

Your story reminds me of when my second grandchild was born two years ago. My first grandson arrived at the hospital with his mother at 8:00PM waiting for this cousin to be born. Christian, (my first) was two years old -- barely!) My daughter had been in labor for two days up to this point before they finally took Lucas (second grandson) by C-Section.

The nursing staff and doctors could not believe that Christian - at two years old stayed awake from 8:00PM until 4:37AM waiting for Lucas and it wasn't until I came out and told him that --"The baby is OK and auntie Shannon is fine" that he put his head on his mothers shoulder and finally went to sleep.

Christian and Lucas are so close -even today -and even though Christian has twenty other cousins on the other side of the family - He and Lucas hold something special between them!

Congratulations on your new baby!

Love,
Deborah



[This message has been edited by Deborah (edited 01-13-2001).]
 
My dear friend Angela has a two-year-old son. As I have been out of a regular teaching job these past months, I began to spend regular time with them. A week after I spent time with Julian the first time, Angela called me on the phone and said she was doing so because he would not stop mentioning my name. She said that no one had had such an effect on him like that.

Yes, we *do* keep company with the same general group of people. Angela was my very devoted sister 100 years ago; I assume her son was one of our relatives. No wonder he feels comfortable with me.

Light,

DJ
 
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