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My son married my friend in a past life?

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Hello,

I was just thinking about a friend of mine who my son adores so much. He is four and she is 24. When I was expecting him, she was upset with her partner one day and said, jokingly, "If it's a boy he'll be sweet and I'll marry him when he is 20!" We laughed it off. When he was born, she saw him and said, "That's it, he's my boy!" As he grew, he used to love seeing her. She does resemble me, but his eyes would get wider and he'd look at her like he was star struck. We don't see her often because our schedlues conflict.

When he was about 16 or 17 months old, (he learned to talk well,quickly), he asked her what her favorite was. She said, "green" and he said, "Mine too!" I didn't know that. I thought it was orange! She said, "okay now...What is your favorite animal?" He told her it was an Elephant and she told him that it was her favorite too. She said, "how about food?" They like the same foods too. She said, "Oh will you marry me?", and he said, "Yeah, well I was just thinking about that out in the car." (Before we went into were she worked).
When they talk, it is like watching two adults talking. He is four now and introduces everyone to her. He could hardly wait to show her to his grandparents. He gave her a present on her birthday this year along with a long stem red rose. He makes sure that she knows she is invited to his birthday and that she gets the first invitation. He also drops by her work and leaves her chocolate and candies.

A few months ago, he said to my sister that she would have to go shopping for clothes soon for the wedding. She asked him what wedding and he told her my friend's name. And she said that he was right because she was marrying her boyfriend.
My sister said he looked really confused and then asked like he was upset, "Who's that?"

We all always thought it was cute. Looking back at the pictures I have of the two, there is a visible connection that you can feel with seeing the picture. My family thinks it is sweet that he has a crush on her. He calls her, his. Like he'd say MY mom or MY dad.
I think that they have a connection to one another from a previous time.

Does anyone have any input or similar stories like this? I'd love to hear it.

take care

Karen
 
Hi Nancy, that's really interesting. Wouldn't it be a shock if sixteen years down the road that your son and friend did marry? I do know of one couple who has that large of a gap in their ages, and it has been a happy and successful marriage for a very long time. As might be expected though, the husband is the older one of the two.

Good luck to your son in his life, and also best wished to your friend who is getting married. It seems to be the summer for that (a good friend of mine is getting married as well).

Hope you're having a wonderful day. Take Care, -Kathy.
 
HI Karen

Thanks for sharing such a quaint story..so sweet. And you know, it reminded me of a memory when I was about two or three years old that I nearly forgot. In the house we lived in till I was nearly four, we had a young girl living next door with her parents, who I adored (she was in her twenties I believe). Anyway, she had a long term boyfriend (childhood sweetheart) called Colin - and boy did I love him to pieces.

In fact, everytime I went in there and Colin was over, I used to get out the catalogue and choose my engagement ring and show everyone and tell them how we was going to get married...LOL...it seemed so silly when I used to look back at it as a teenager...now I wonder

Thanks for the trip down memory lane Karen...and good luck to you son and friend

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Lots of Love
Kelly




[This message has been edited by Kelly (edited 07-17-2001).]
 
Kelly,

How cute! I really do beleive that they have been connected in some way. They don't see each other often enough to have formed a strong bond. He seems to know when she is at work, and when she has a day off. When she is not at work, he tells the staff to let her know that he was in.

He has always looked at her like she was someone special. He also feels like he has to see her. And she always says, "oh there comes my man!" when he walks in. He doesn't even blush, he just walks right in and starts talking.

Maybe they were together in some way previous to this life. I'd love to find out!

Take care,

Karen
 
Hi Karen

It's very likely they could have been together many times before...maybe in time, he'll give you more answers and you'll receive more than you expected

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Lots of Love
Kelly




[This message has been edited by Kelly (edited 07-18-2001).]
 
My friends daughter has always "taken" to me, and I have to admit, she is very familiar. She is two now, and I'm the only adult she'll run to see besides her parents and grandparents. I only see her once every month or so, so it's not like I"m a major influence in her life. At her first birthday party (with over 50 family members and a few adult friends in attendance) she came to me and fell asleap on my shoulder in the middle of her party. I wonder if she has been a child or family member or friend of mine before. I wonder if she'll ever speak about past lives - that would be very neat.
 
Maddison,

Ah...How sweet! It is touching when something like that happens. It is funny, because it seems like these little people know certain people so well and are so comfortable with them. There has to be a connection somewhere.

Thanks for the input!

Take care,

Karen
 
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