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bluluvscoco

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My son is almost 6. But there has been on few occasions where he sparks my curiosity over something he says or does. I didn't store a couple in my memory bank because I thought it was just coincidence and maybe a mix up of words. But finally something caught my attention.....

We were at dinner with a sister who lives out of town. Ryan was going on 4 years old........ We def. censor everything he watches and if it's not Disney Jr. or education videos on his ipad he doesn't watch it.

There was wine glasses at the table, before the waitress removed the wine glasses my son asked if he could drink his apple juice in one. I agreed. After a few sips, he put his arm around his aunt and called her something endearing and acted as if he was drunk and said " I've had too much to drink". For a split moment, he was someone else. We all saw it. And we all knew what we had witnessed.

My husband and I don't drink or smoke. And when we do it's on a special occasion dinner where it's just the two of us.

Last week, my son is almost six. His grandma passed away last year, which has impacted him tremendously. On the way to the cemetery to take her flowers, he commented that "when we all die", meaning mom, dad, and his sister, "we should all remember to come back together so we could all be together again." I was spooked. I looked at my husband and he looked at me and I asked him did you hear him, and he said yes but don't think anything of it, he's a kid. I looked at Ryan and asked him what he meant and he said reiterated what I thought he said confidently.
 
It sounds like your son may have known his grandma in a past life. Have you tried asking him open ended questions? A good time to ask is when he is sleepy or riding in a car. Ask him what his name was "when he was big". Start a journal and write down anything strange he says that could be past life related. In another year or two his past life memories will probably start to fade.
 
Hi bluluvscoco


Welcome to the forum.


Yep. Sounds like a past life memory to me. A lot of little kids remember their past lives and talk about them. But often parents don't notice or think they are imagining things or making it up or some other 'logical' explanation of that nature.


My daughter works in child care and she has a lot of stories like that to share. Little kids are often saying they used to be big and didn't have to have a nap when they were told to, and things like this.


In the normal course of events, kids will start to forget by the time they are about 7 or so, but not always.


What sort of other things has he said? Can you remember any others?
 
argonne1918 said:
It sounds like your son may have known his grandma in a past life...
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Not necessarily argonne.


What it might indicate is that he is remembering the 'between life' state perhaps? When, according to what we know about these things, people do get to make at least some choices about who they want to come back and spend their next life with. It seems not unusual for people to choose a 'soul group' that they like to hang out with. This can be friends or family, but is often members of the same family. So, that remark shows that he is familiar with the process at least.
 
Thank you for responding and the suggestions.


My son is currently in a not very confident age, so when he notices a reaction on our part he'll shut down. With age comes self awareness and I believe he senses it is weird.


15 years ago my grandma (who raised me) lost her son at the age of 9 to a horrible accident. He was hit on the head with heavy machinery equipment by accident. My mum (I refer to her as mom) never got over it. It took her over a decade to even hear his name without crying.


After my son was born in 2009, before believing in reincarnation, before reincarnation had entered my train of thought, I felt like I knew him. I can't explain this next part but without thinking it was Chris I felt like it was.....


My son R was born with the tip of his ear a slight bent over, like almost crushed. Dr.'s said it was from him being lodged in a certain area but with time it would go away. It hasn't. Yesterday as I was discussing reincarnation with my sister, I mentioned that some peoples birthmarks or marks are clues to how they died in their past life ( I learned this all from being a member of this board for years)


Then it hit me......... Chris died because of a blow to the head. and then I remembered R's ear. My mum and R are extremely close, she's cared for him all these years while I've been at work. Sometimes I have to push that he's my son because she's overprotective of him.


Over the years R has mentioned the whole I picked you.... I'll try to remember more. I feel guilty for depending on my memory and not writing these things down. He does talk about death often and heaven but that was triggered due to the loss of his paternal grandmother.
 
I think you have solved this. I think your son Ryan is Chris returned. Now that you know, you will understand him better. Does he know anything about Chris? Has he seen his picture, etc.? Now you know why she was overprotective of him. Since he is only 6 he should still have some past life memories. I think you can talk to him on a level that he can understand. You can ask him open ended questions. Be sure to keep a journal and write everything down. In a few years his memories will fade and he won't remember any of this.
 
Keep in mind the best time to ask these kinds of questions is right when he says something. Other good times are when he's sleepy or riding in a car. That comment he made about the whole family remembering to get back together after they all die intrigues me. Maybe ask something like "Were we together before?" "Do you remember if you were a boy or a girl". "What was your name?" "What color was your hair?" "What color was your skin?" "Were you big when you died?"
 
Two days ago my son randomly said, " don't worry mom, when we die, we go to heaven and we come back as babies."


My daughter asked " can I go to heaven to ask my grandma Hilda when my baby sister is coming down from heaven".


I've never mentioned these things to my babies. They are 5 & 4.


I'm a believer.
 
Welcome to the Forum!


Just to get some clarity on your situation: Are you thinking that your son is your uncle reborn? You said that Chris was your grandmother's child, and that your Mum (grandmother) took care of your son. Is that correct? Is this the same person who recently died?


Then, if R is the reincarnation of Chris, he would be the reincarnation of his great-uncle? Is that correct?


It's possible. Are there any other similarities between R and Chris? Is your mother the sister of Chris? If so, has she seen any similarities?


As you know from this Forum, reincarnation in the same family is not unusual, especially if a child died traumatically, they may return to the same family. Present this possibility to your mother, if she is Chris's sister and was old enough to know him before he died.
 
Carol, Chris died 15 years ago when I was 14. I see similarities, he's full of energy like Chris.... Ever since my son was born, I have felt as if Chris was around. I always thought it was because he was watching over us.


Re: talking to dead people - My daughter had an imaginary friend for years, her name was Danaya - i've never ever heard that name. Well my daughter told me Danaya lived in the walls and then later said Danaya had died.
 
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