I joined this forum specifically because of your post. I lost my 23 year old daughter two months ago and for weeks I barely ate, barely breathed, barely survived. But, she came to me in a dream to tell me she is coming back as her brother's child. I was surprised, because her brother's wife doesn't think she wants children and is on birth control, but my daughter said she is "coming through" the birth control. As you can imagine, I am holding my breath, hoping it is so. I also belong to an on-line group of parents who have lost children to suicide, and one mother had a vivid dream last week. Her son has been gone 7 yrs, but came to tell her it's time for him to come back. Unfortunately, that group doesn't even consider reincarnation and the people there suggest it means he will live forever in her heart! Have you dreamed of your daughter? She may try to tell you where she will come back. I know that suicides often have to come back right away, and often into the same family, to complete the lessons they were meant to learn. While we all have a life plan, we have free will and can choose to quit at any time, but that doesn't mean we get to stay over there! For now, it's the thought that keeps me going.