Past life connections

[Nadir batista]

Hello everyone. I must start by saying that this is the first time that I've had the nerve to come forward and start questioning things that I've been taught not to as a child of Roman Catholic parents. I have an overwhelming need to know and I'm hoping you all can help. I have a friend who I went to high school with 16 years ago. Unfortunately, he was killed in the line of duty as a police officer about 6.5 years ago. I was pregnant with my first son at the time and completely devastated by his death.

He was killed Sept. 29, 1998. My son was born on Jan. 11, 1999. I named my son after my friend, with my husband's consent out of respect and admiration. The loss of my friend is still very fresh for me but, something has happened with my oldest son that has me asking some questions. I viewed the video tapes from the trial of my friend's killer who described the scene of his death in great detail to detectives. My son was not home at the time. He was over 42 miles away from me.

Only my husband and I knew what my friend's murder had to say about what happened that night. About a month later, I was tucking my boys into bed for the night and my oldest one asked if he could talk to me for a minute. I sat down and he began to tell me that he wanted to be a police officer when he grew up because the "bad guy killed him." I asked him what he meant by this. He said that he got out of his car and he got the bad guy out too. The bad guy ran away and he chased him.

He went on to describe everything that I heard the murderer describe to the detectives at the trial verbatum! I began to cry and my husband just stood there with a blank look on his face. See, this was his best friend that had been killed. My son went on to say that he "didn't know he had a gun and he just shot me in the head." My son did not seem the slightest upset about all of this while telling it. I learned a little later on that my son and my friend share the same birthday. Am I completely losing my mind in my 6.5 yrs. of grief??

Was this just a visit from my friend or is this my friend? My son has claimed to see my grandfather in the past and became quite upset with me when I told him that I didn't see what he saw. He has also done the same thing to my mother who keeps him from time to time.

As I thought your story so interesting and a little bit similar to mine;I decided to comment something about it.
I believe that maybe this baby may be your friend ,why not ? If you both liked each other .He may return to stay beside you again.In my case the story is little different because my friend in this life was my son in my last past life.Our love is so strong that many people think strange.Moreover ,because this feeling that we have for each other I saw a psychic who told that I was my friend's mother im my last past life and this is the reason for so much love and pain,because I suffer to much for not having him beside me.I always did since the first time I met him.For you dear I just want to say; congratualation.I let here two questions...if somebody can explain to me the resons why I will appreciate.
first : how is possible this man be her son if the woman was already pregant and almost 8 month of preganancy ?(I have been studying a lot about spiritism but this part I don't understand yet) .
second: Why did I come back to life totally separate from my son(this life my friend) what is the reason that he was not born in my family again ?:butbut: It is a big doubt in my mind which causes a huge hole in my heart(
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[Nightrain]

First: How is possible this man could be her son if the woman was already pregnant and almost 8 month of pregnancy ?
Second: Why did I come back to life totally separate from my son

Hi Nadir!


There are some interesting cases that were investigated by Dr. Ian Stevenson, which involved past lives which terminated a very short time before birth. Think of the fetus as just a suit of clothes that were made before being worn. The fetus, apparently, can be occupied at any time during the pregnancy.


Regarding your second question, I doubt that any of us can explain why your son in a past life is now a friend. It could have been arranged for a good reason that you can't remember. One suggestion could be that you died in a past life shortly after your son, which could necessitate the two of you coming back as unrelated individuals. This is assuming only that linear time is at work here.

 

[IrisG.]

Even though I agree that there might not be a strong connection between the fetus and the soul during pregnancy, as a mother, I hate the idea of a fetus as a "suit of clothes that is for being worn", that is highly insensitive!


I do not know how it might happen that the interval between death and rebirth is sometimes extremely short - maybe the soul of a newly deceased is somewhat "stronger" and "kicks another soul out" or whatever, but I strongly refuse the idea that a soulless peace of cloth grew in my womb!

 

[Nadir batista]

hi Nightrain


Thanks a lot for replying ,as you said ...nobody can explain why I came back separated from my son and you are correct friend.I just know until now that I killed him with 14 years old,and the reason ? because I did not accept that he was gay ,and in this current life he is gay too ....but i don't have any prejudice about him..I love him much more than my daughter that I have in this life . As I said in my last post before ..it is strange but who could explain the strength of love ? In this case.. things came from past life .Sometimes I think that he is apart from me because as I did not accept him the way he was;now I am paying for my mistake .But.. for awhile I am here living just 1hour and a half from him ...without the possibility to approach and praying for the time that he calls me again and says that he is missing me and loves me .


much thanks friend and light

 

[Nightrain]

...as a mother, I hate the idea of a fetus as a "suit of clothes that is for being worn", that is highly insensitive!

My sincere apology, if you were offended, Iris. It was not meant to be insensitive. However, I've seen the blame that many mothers heap upon themselves after still birth, miscarriage and abortion. I know that the deep attachment begins the moment that she realizes the pregnancy. And, I've observed that the unborn child often clearly exhibits real personalities almost from the very beginning. But, this is not always the case. Some people believe and report that they were in and out of their unborn bodies off and on throughout the pregnancy. I don't subscribe to any theory that allows one soul to bump another out of one's body. When we consider that our physical bodies are separate from our souls; everyone, invariably, is wearing a physical suit of clothes, which eventually end up worn and discarded.