Hi everyone, I'm new here.
I was wondering whether your wishes and desires that are unfulfilled in your current life can be a factor in choosing your next one, especially when they are the result of a traumatic experience early in life.
I'm a preemie (I was born six weeks too early) which resulted in a weak eyesight, hard of hearing and weak finger and mouth muscles which meant, among other things, that I couldn't be breastfed. In addition to that, my mom would not allow me to use baby bottles or pacifiers as a child so I developed a weakness for those things. Also, it influenced my views on child raising. But ever since I've learned about reincarnation and planning lives, I wonder whether my experiences in this life means that I could choose a family who is more open to that e.g. a family who supports extended breastfeeding and self-weaning.
I also have the desire to be female and wish to be born a girl in my next life.
So my question ultimately is: can I choose such an open family for my next life and how would that work?
Excited to be here and hope to learn a lot,
Lia
I was wondering whether your wishes and desires that are unfulfilled in your current life can be a factor in choosing your next one, especially when they are the result of a traumatic experience early in life.
I'm a preemie (I was born six weeks too early) which resulted in a weak eyesight, hard of hearing and weak finger and mouth muscles which meant, among other things, that I couldn't be breastfed. In addition to that, my mom would not allow me to use baby bottles or pacifiers as a child so I developed a weakness for those things. Also, it influenced my views on child raising. But ever since I've learned about reincarnation and planning lives, I wonder whether my experiences in this life means that I could choose a family who is more open to that e.g. a family who supports extended breastfeeding and self-weaning.
I also have the desire to be female and wish to be born a girl in my next life.
So my question ultimately is: can I choose such an open family for my next life and how would that work?
Excited to be here and hope to learn a lot,
Lia