mamakaykay
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Hi all! It has been a very long time since I have posted in these forums...life just kinda gets in the way, you know? Working full time and taking care of 5 kiddos doesn't leave much time for anything else, lol. Anyway, I hope everyone is well and I have something I would like to share and see if I can get some feedback.
My daughter Aaliyah, who I have posted about before in the past, is now 3 1/2 years old and quite something, let me tell you! She began talking clearly at a very early age thanks to 4 older siblings and has been talking about her "friends" since she was about 1 1/2. Back then she only called them "my friends" or "the guys". But they went everywhere she went, she would tell us where they were standing (usually right next to her) and she would even tell us things they were doing (digging, talking, laughing, etc). They went to restaurants with us, walked big brother Cameron to school a long side her stroller, in other words they were always around. Once she talked a little more she finally began putting names to the "guys". The first one was Rudy Pakpak, or just Rudy. We have no idea where this name comes from, she has never met anyone with the name Rudy at all and yes, Rudy is a guy, lol. He is always with her and she talks to him all the time. The rest of the friends also have names that have been coming up more lately: Logan, Evan, Jacob, and Jason. One night I watched her have a conversation with "Jacob" about his name she was asking him, "now is it 'Jake' or 'Jacob'? Jacob? Ok...Jacob" as if she was asking him what to call him. She calls these guys her friends and she is always consistent about them, their names never change, she never forgets one though Rudy remains her best friend (as in the one she talks to and about the most). Keep in mind, she doesn't know anyone with these names, they aren't characters in a show she watches, she came up with these names all on her own. And in the past few months another name has come up. Her "boy" name. It's Duke. She will put on a cap and try to deepen her voice (as much as a 3 year old girl can, lol) and tell me her name is Duke and that she's a boy. Once again, not a name we believe she has heard somewhere as its not a very common name.
So the male persona plus the male friends she interacts with made me wonder if this is maybe something from a past life. I really would love to know what others might think about it. When she isn't being Duke she is really a very girly girl. She loves dressing up like a princess, wearing dresses, getting her hair done, jewelry, etc it's only when she is being Duke that she becomes different. Any input would be appreciated!
My daughter Aaliyah, who I have posted about before in the past, is now 3 1/2 years old and quite something, let me tell you! She began talking clearly at a very early age thanks to 4 older siblings and has been talking about her "friends" since she was about 1 1/2. Back then she only called them "my friends" or "the guys". But they went everywhere she went, she would tell us where they were standing (usually right next to her) and she would even tell us things they were doing (digging, talking, laughing, etc). They went to restaurants with us, walked big brother Cameron to school a long side her stroller, in other words they were always around. Once she talked a little more she finally began putting names to the "guys". The first one was Rudy Pakpak, or just Rudy. We have no idea where this name comes from, she has never met anyone with the name Rudy at all and yes, Rudy is a guy, lol. He is always with her and she talks to him all the time. The rest of the friends also have names that have been coming up more lately: Logan, Evan, Jacob, and Jason. One night I watched her have a conversation with "Jacob" about his name she was asking him, "now is it 'Jake' or 'Jacob'? Jacob? Ok...Jacob" as if she was asking him what to call him. She calls these guys her friends and she is always consistent about them, their names never change, she never forgets one though Rudy remains her best friend (as in the one she talks to and about the most). Keep in mind, she doesn't know anyone with these names, they aren't characters in a show she watches, she came up with these names all on her own. And in the past few months another name has come up. Her "boy" name. It's Duke. She will put on a cap and try to deepen her voice (as much as a 3 year old girl can, lol) and tell me her name is Duke and that she's a boy. Once again, not a name we believe she has heard somewhere as its not a very common name.
So the male persona plus the male friends she interacts with made me wonder if this is maybe something from a past life. I really would love to know what others might think about it. When she isn't being Duke she is really a very girly girl. She loves dressing up like a princess, wearing dresses, getting her hair done, jewelry, etc it's only when she is being Duke that she becomes different. Any input would be appreciated!