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Answers for a sceptic

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Just a little update, my son appears to be getting some kind of "flashbacks" he doesn't talk about them to his mother or I, but confides to his girlfriend, who thankfully feel it's her duty to pass on to us. Without going into great detail it would appear our suspicions are correct, and he was indeed Eddie Cochran. We are going to the annual weekend event held where he died, this year it falls on a Saturday 16th April, same day and date he was in crash, and our sons birthday. Will be interesting to see if jogs anything else within his memories. Will update then if anything interesting happens, by the way my scepticism has gone now I'm sure....:laugh:
 
scottish dad said:
Will update then if anything interesting happens, by the way my scepticism has gone now I'm sure....:laugh:
We'll be very much looking forward to hearing how your son does with the experience. Take care...be patient.
 
Thanks for the update scottish dad :thumbsup:


It will be interesting to see how your son reacts to being in 'familiar' surroundings, and I'm looking forward to hearing any further updates.


:)
 
Oh my goodness, scottish dad, as I read your story I was thinking this sounds very similar to my story and the name of the musician came up. The connection is very interesting.


This is all recent discovery for me but I, too, was born on the same day as the suspected previous incarnation. I was nearly killed near the anniversary of this person's death (3 days out to be precise) and only 5 doors away from the place this person died. There was no person around at the time of my crisis (typical! but quite rightly karma wise) but I did have a help of so called a guide if you believe it or not. And acting on the basis of the guide's instruction, I was able to dodge murder at that time. I have the same interest with the previous life and skin blemish on the area of fatal wound.


I believe my previous incarnation wrote a tribute song to your son's previous incarnation. ;)
 
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"I believe my previous incarnation wrote a tribute song to your son's previous incarnation."
Very interesting, what was name of song? If you don't want to post on here, you can send me private message, option under my name above avatar, thank you in advance
 
PM sent to you scottish dad. I'm not ready to reveal the identity in public yet as my past ended in major sin. I don't know if I ever will.


I was just listening to Dr Weiss interview and I had to stop when I heard him say "I asked her to go back to the time when her symptoms first began". It's a key question. It reminded me of a time when I studied energy healing to heal ailments and emotional problems etc. Then I thought about the time when my blemish started to manifest which was about the time my previous life ended with the wound. Now, I take it that your young son didn't have this high blood pressure problem before and it had only come on at about the same age as his previous life ended. It's just an observation but I've never thought about the timing of my manifestation until today because I never knew about my previous life till very recently. Interesting similarity, don't you think?


Another thing is, I wasn't looking for information about your son's previous life but this old thread had got bumped only yesterday and it was top of the thread so I clicked and there it was. :thumbsup:
 
OneMoreTime,


I understand the reluctance to reveal what a past life was, completely. I get to know people very well before I do it anymore, because of some bad experiences with people who pretended to be my friends and very interested - then used the details to make me out as some kind of joke. In any case, I think what the discovery means to us personally is more important than trying to prove it to other people.
 
RemainingSpirit,


I am not here to preach or convert people into my way of thinking so I share it with spiritual/open minded people who can see beyond sin and know the purpose. It is for my personal journey to discover about how this universe works and if the information is helpful to friends who are also searching, I won't mind sharing my experience.
 
one more time


I also understand reluctance to name who you were, I was same when came on here looking for answers. Had to be dragged out of me as you can see if you read back on my thread :D Person you were was brilliant at what he did, if a little eccentric, shall we say. I will keep you updated on how son gets on, particularly in April. Thanks for your interest.
 
I am still a little eccentric, passionate, obsessive and ahead of time in thinking. :laugh: But I hope I curved my temper this time around.


Great to have met you and keep us posted on your son's progress.
 
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Well 16th April has come and gone, we went to Chippenham event, and had a very enjoyable time, to extent I am tired listening to Rockabilly music. :laugh: Nothing appeared to happen to my son, I offered to take him to crash site at exact time on exact date, he was up for it, but as got nearer to time he said he didn't want to go, would go next day to lay flowers. Watched him in hall where bands were playing, he seemed agitated, constantly checking his watch, till time crash happened had passed, then settled down. We went to site next morning and he laid flowers, and got his picture taken beside plaque. As we were driving back up motorway, we had CD on and a Buddy Holly tune came on, I asked him why every year on anniversary of his death he holds 2 mins silence, yet, on Eddies date he has never done so? He changed subject and never gave an answer, and as he was driving at time, I didn't pursue him to answer. My wife and his girlfriend, who were in back seat, commented later that they noticed how he changed subject quickly. He has been asked by organisers of annual event to bring his guitar and he will be given a spot on stage next year, when he will be same age as Eddie when he died. I wonder if he is waiting till that age when he died previously? Who knows!
 
Hi scottish dad :)


I've been thinking about you and your son these last few days with the anniversary coming up. For some reason I thought it was the 20 something of April, and I was making a note to myself to contact you and ask how your trip to Chippenham went, but I thought it was next week, sorry.


Looking back over this thread, I haven't seen any reference, and I don't think you've mentioned it before, so forgive me if you have, but does your son believe he is the reincarnation of Eddie? Or is he aware of any connection between himself and Eddie? Or is this something that you have figured out for yourself and not told him? Obviously he is a 'fan' of the music, but is he aware of the past life aspect of it all?


Chris :)
 
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Yes Chris, he is and he isn't aware if that makes sense. He seems to have "flashes" from Eddie, they don't last long however and he has no knowledge of saying things after the event. One day last month, he and I went out with metal detector I got for Xmas. As usual all I could find was old cans, I said this is waste of time, just junk. He then replied, "You can't always see whats in front of you" I said "what do you mean by that?" He said "you cant see who is standing in front of you?" I said "who's standing in front of me?" He said "Eddie Cochran." I just said nothing, well what do you say to that? and changed subject. At later date I asked him if he remembered what he said that day? He looked at me quizzically and said no, what do you mean? I told him what he said, he told me not too talk nonsense. Am I losing plot or what? There has been other bits coming out from time to time, he just comes out with odd sentence that doesn't refer to him, but as if not him talking but someone else, trouble is don't know when will happen, wondering if he's suffering from schizophrenia, or is it re-incarnation talking. Stranger and stranger! :eek:
 
Scottish Dad


I hesitate to put myself out as an "expert", which I certainly am NOT, but the incident with the Metal Detector and "seeing" Eddie Cochran leads me to believe that your Son was in a short trance state and also experienced a short burst of "Clairvoyance", meaning (as you probably well know) "Clear Seeing".


Whether your Son had to enter a trance state to see the late singer is possible, but I am not entirely sure, however a common side effect of a trance state is amnesia of a short duration after the trance is over (one is reminded of Edgar Cayce who remembered nothing from his trances.)


It is entirely possible that your Son has some latent psychic abilities (as we all do) of an advanced nature, and if HE wishes, might want to practice and advance them.


IMHO these psychic abilities may be left-overs from a very primitive past when they were an extra skill needed for survival (just one of my theories.)
 
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Thanks for your input hydrolad, suppose it's possible he was in trance, was no sign of glazed over eyes etc that you would associate with trances. I have never heard of "Clear Seeing" I am total novice at this "reincarnation" thing. If you could elaborate I would be grateful. What my wife and I have decided is just to observe and take written notes of things he says/does, and see where that leads us, to be honest we don't know what else to do, and we don't want him, or us for that matter, to get obsessed with the idea that he is a re incarnation of a long dead musician. Hopefully he will get it out of his system soon, he will be same age as Eddie was when he died next year, all being well things will settle down, at moment all we are seeing is increase in activity, "flashes" etc, thanks to all here for your continuing patience and putting up with my ramblings :laugh:
 
I find your son very fascinating so thank you for sharing it.


Regarding coincidences I have slowly started to believe there are none. Coincidences often feels like the world is trying to communicate to us that there is something more, that there are solutions to problems, and that hope is not a vague dream.


For me, the last 4 months I have been hit by so many "coincidences" that either I'll make coincidence my middle name or there is more to it, and these coincidences all appear when I am going through what I'd call the hardest part of my life.


So don't rule out that there is more to coincidence than you see. Sometimes it can be very liberating to listen to the world, perceive, and just enjoy the ride.
 
OneMoreTime said:
I was nearly killed near the anniversary of this person's death (3 days out to be precise) and only 5 doors away from the place this person died. There was no person around at the time of my crisis (typical! but quite rightly karma wise) but I did have a help of so called a guide if you believe it or not. And acting on the basis of the guide's instruction, I was able to dodge murder at that time. I have the same interest with the previous life and skin blemish on the area of fatal wound.
Very intriguing OneMore Time. What I have thought about a lot is that challenges often stay the same, they're there, but it is by us evolving (or maybe in your case the help of a guide) that we can overcome these challenges. That is a good sign, that' we've learned something or that we are helped to overcome. The circumstances are there but maybe it is our path that decides whether it'll have an effect upon us or not or by what we've learned. Like the bermuda triangle is there but it is our fate or our wisdom that makes us being there and our ship going in or not.


I just think the soul is a slow learner seen from our sense of time, but the most important is that it effectively learns. It's funny how you unconsciously were put in a likewise situation (due to your soul memory?!)


I am again with the people that were involved when I had a wrong reaction. We're doing something again. I was not immediately conscious but I had some suspicion. So I found out later when fate brought us back together. Still it isn't easy to learn because we might have the old tendency still in us, but being conscious and knowing what has happened is of great help to me. I also wonder if there are 'Once bitten, twice shy cases' or if guides do not allow that...


Regards


Overseas
 
Overseas said:
I am again with the people that were involved when I had a wrong reaction. We're doing something again. I was not immediately conscious but I had some suspicion. So I found out later when fate brought us back together. Still it isn't easy to learn because we might have the old tendency still in us, but being conscious and knowing what has happened is of great help to me. I also wonder if there are 'Once bitten, twice shy cases' or if guides do not allow that...
Overseas
I am also currently embroiled with others from a past lifetime who requested I replay aspects of my previous role in order for them to get it right this time around and unfortunately it has not quite gone as planned. Their old patterns have resulted in the same negative place they were in before. I am in the process of extricating myself from them and will have no further obligation to them from a karmic or human standpoint. They are longterm soulmates but this matter, or lesson, no longer holds anything for which I am responsible or desire to learn. Their development along these lines will continue with others as I am finished.


Through guidance's direction I was treated to a very clear analysis of the past lifetime and its corrollary to this one. Guidance indicated that while I have been following the plan to enable them opportunities to make better decisions, they, through free will have chosen to follow the same patterns.
 
Just reacting as shortly as possible Usetawuz because I don't wanna rob the thread too much. Somehow the people involved in past life events helped me to solve problems now and the relationship with my parents has gradually become better again as a result. It was good they did what they did.


So from a logic point of view things are reinstalled the way they once were by those who created the chaos (us!). I've learned a lesson. I don't think the others involved are conscious. I am now reseeing it because I feel the interactions are going downhill. It's time to go separate ways in a decent manner we don't wanna be in the same slipstream anymore. I too don't think they've really learned their lesson, they're not in an honest sphere, and a little cheating tendency slips in once and a while. But in some way they have done good in that I could rebuild things and that was what had to be done I guess. So from one pov I think we're all part of the problem and part of the solution, on the other hand I do believe we can and have to individually deal with karma.
 
The internet says he felt guilty for the death of Buddy Holly because he felt he should have been on that tour and also on the same plane.


His girlfriend was Sharon Sheeley. She died in 2002, so no reincarnation there for your son's girlfriend although Sharon could be working to put the two together to perhaps look after her man ...


Interesting reincarnation story, thanks for sharing it.
 
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Funny you should say that Mama2HRB, was reading a piece on Internet that Sharon said she and Eddie were going to be married. To which my son scoffed and said "thats what she thinks" as if it was in present tense, (actually used a swear word before thinks) I said "what do you mean?" He said "there is no marriage happening" Oh well reckon that may or may not mean he was not that serious about her after all, or Sharon liked to think there was more to relationship, after all Eddie wasn't around to confirm or deny her comments, she could make up what she liked about their relationship. Stranger and stranger.
 
I do find it great when you actually get to talk to someone who is reincarnated, the views they have now on the life then. In so many ways he is still the soul he was.


If he were my son I would read up on the singer's life (including unauthorized stuff) and have some great talks.


The information I found on Sharon was quite interesting, perhaps she said they were going to be married to further her career, especially she was a ground breaking woman in a man's field.


I have been able to speak to some amazing people who have passed and the information they gave me was simply mind blowing ...
 
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Unfortunately or fortunately depending on how you look at it, my son only has "moments" when he lapses into his past life, they last only a couple of mins at a time, so a conversation is not very likely, in fact they are getting less frequent now, think its as he gets older, this life quite rightly is taking centre stage. I will keep an eye on things however, but I reckon we know what Eddie really thought of Sharon, and I see she got buried beside him in cemetery, oh well :(
 
scottish dad said:
Unfortunately or fortunately depending on how you look at it, my son only has "moments" when he lapses into his past life, they last only a couple of mins at a time, so a conversation is not very likely, in fact they are getting less frequent now, think its as he gets older, this life quite rightly is taking centre stage. I will keep an eye on things however, but I reckon we know what Eddie really thought of Sharon, and I see she got buried beside him in cemetery, oh well :(
Is he always aware of his past life, or is it only sometimes that the memories come on? I found that with the metaphysical side of life, and with reincarnation, the more we research and speak of it, the more memories and proof that comes out.


Too bad she is buried by his side if that is not what he wanted. Who knows, though, maybe it was her way of dealing with his early death, especially if she never fell in love with anyone else.
 
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Hi Nightrain, I have to admit when I first tentavily decided to post on here, I was very nervous, and was thinking people will laugh and scoff at my story. I was pleasantly surprised at reception I got, people don't think I'm a nutjob, surprise! It has changed my belief in the hereafter, where I thought it was oblivion, now it would appear there is something after death which I find is a comfort. Mama2hrb, you know I have not sat and talked to my son, other than to him, I have not tried talking to Eddie, interesting thought there, he is not aware of his past life as far as I know, just those "flashes" as I call them, which don't last long at all. Wonder if he gets another one, I try and get some more detail from his past life, might keep him in past longer, never tried, usually so taken aback I tend to change subject. Leave that one with me, will try it if and when he has another "flashback" :thumbsup:
 
I would ask open ended, not leading questions. Maybe something he would be excited to talk about, like what was it like in the rock n roll scene then, what were his ideas for his songs from, what he felt when he first heard his song on the radio.


Let your son know you are open to talking about that lifetime anytime he wants. There is a chance he is holding back because he is afraid you might think he is weird.


Take notes if he says it is okay so you can refer to them later and to get into greater depth.


If your son is anything like my daughter our conversations went from fun to amazing to downright shocking.


Best wishes to you.


BECKY
 
I have no doubt he may be holding back, anytime we mention Eddie he tends to change subject. He has expressed interest in going to Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in USA, that could be just because he loves the music, but Eddies guitar also resides there. Could take in his hometown where he grew up, as Eddie, may jog something in his mind or not who knows. Will wait and see if can get any more info from him before going to that extreme, it may be that not much more will be forthcoming, however I could be wrong, have been before, just when I think Eddies gone, he comes out with another quote that stops me in my tracks, like the one about Sharon. :eek:
 
Rock N Roll Hall Of Fame


I have been to there and should warn you that there is a display of the plane wreck that killed Buddy Holly and part of the plane is there.


It is an amazing museum that I want to return to (this time without children LOL) It is full of amazing pieces with everything from the bag of hotel keys stolen by a certain band member to the first Rolling Stone Magazine and so much more.


For him it should be full of triggers, there is so much from his PL era. Just be close in case ... you just never know ...
 
I was searching the web for amusement parks which in a roundabout way brought me past the parks in Ohio and remembering a vacation that ended in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame so I went to the site and was surprised to see Eddie Cochran's guitar on the front page.


A quick search of the site brought me to this page, which may be full of interesting things for you.


Eddie Cochran Info And Pix at Rock & Roll Hall of Fame
 
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