QUOTE FROM “Mama2HRB” I just tell them it is because the ghosts didn't like her. “Mama2HRB” Brings up a good comment about ghosts/spirits, it is possible IMHO for spirits to NOT like a person. Just like on the physical plane, where it’s possible to not like a person or the traits in a person, it is possible for a spirit to not like a particular person based on those very same personality traits. I have heard recollections from people who mention that a family spirit will tolerate, even play with, the family children and pets, but will ignore the family Adults. Or will interact with the Female members of the family, but won’t have anything to do with the Males in the family. And in closing, it is possible for Spirits, who have certain vices in life, to die suddenly, but still have a craving for those very same vices, and seek out those, still in body, to experience those feelings. For example, those with problems with Alcohol, Tobacco, Gambling, Sex, you name it and if you like those things, it is possible for them to seek you out for the gratification involved!