I saw
'Hereafter' a few days ago and it is (in part) what has 'driven' me back to this forum after having had a bit of a break (very busy trying to
save the world just at the moment). But I have been in floods of tears for the past few days as I was when I first found the forum, so something's going on and I know from long experience when that happens I should pay attention and do something about it.
Two things moved me profoundly about the film (apart from the amazing performances, effects and direction and script). The twins made me weep uncontrollably. People who are familiar with my story will know why. Just heartbreaking! Others will have to use the 'Search' function and work it out for themselves (It's not just about X by the way, but also my father).
Anyway, the main thing was the story of the 'hero' - Matt Damon's character - and his way of coming to terms with his rather unwelcome 'gift'. Like him, through no fault of my own, since childhood once I worked out it wasn't normal, I thought of myself as a bit of a 'freak' being able to remember so much stuff, and I didn't want to be different in any way, but there wasn't anything I could do about it, of course. I really felt for him.
Being a bit 'special' has often got in the way of having a normal life. Try as I will, I can't help seeing things differently, knowing more things than I ought to, feeling things more deeply and often more strongly than other people and never being able to make anyone understand what it was like... because nobody else had any idea what I was talking about. It's put the 'kybosh' on a few potential relationships over the years, you bet! I also empathised with the French woman who had an experience which was undeniable, visceral and very, very real, but nobody else understood what she had gone through or took seriously or wondered why.
The theme of the film is that "these things" (mysteries?) are hidden, secret and spooky although they concern every single human being deep down to their core. Those who talk about this stuff must do it in secret because 'normal' people find it frightening, confusing or disturbing. I understand why this is so, but where does that leave people like me... or Matt Damon... or Marie...?
This is a great shame, as so much knowledge could be gained if only we were honest and open about this stuff.
Anyway. Great film! I recommend it.
Everyone should see it. It might open a few people's eyes. It stops short of discussing the 'r' word, but at least they explore what happens after people die with some kind of curiosity, openess and compassion.