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My Son The Monk

richmartini

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I talk about this event in my book "Flipside" but thought I'd repeat it here, as I'm a fan of Carol's book "Children's Past Lives" and it brought me in a roundabout way to this research.

when my son was 2, his first sentence to me was over the phone: "Dad I was a monk in Nepal." Ok, I said. "Put your mom on the phone" She said they hadn't been discussing anything of the sort. When he was 3 I asked him "Did you know daddy from before?" He nodded. "Where?" "tibet" he said. I looked at him. "Where in Tibet?" "On the path," he said.

I remembered I was in Tibet filming a documentary (which "Flipside is both book and doc) about Tibet with Robert Thurman. Bob told us that on one particular spot it was the most sacred spot on the planet, and any wish would come true. I was going to wish for money, but out of my mouth came "I want a son."

So I said to my son "Was it on Mt. Kailash?" He said "no." So I thought about the paths.. and asked "Was it on kangra?" He said "yes, Kangra." That's the name of the path around Kailash in Tibetan. Ok, but I said it, not him.

Later, while in NYC, subletting an apt while making a film, my wife called. My son had taken two books out of this guy's library and threw one in the trash. She asked why, and he said "that book is worthless, this is the important one." It was Thurman's book "Circling the Sacred Mt." - he flipped it open to a picture of where I made the wish and said "That's where I found daddy."

Some months ago, we were in a Tibet shop and he disappeared. My wife went looking for him (he's 6) and found him in the back room doing full prostrations, the way monks do. He saw her and said "Mom, you need to meditate more. And this is how you do it.":angel:
 
Hi Rich, and welcome to the Forum! It is a great honor to have you here and I personally hope to benefit from your experience and insights. There is much more that I can say, but I will leave it to you to create purposeful dialog which will hopefully address our common goals of critical inquiry.
 
Welcome Rich,


Your story illustrates beautifully the "soul moments" that are sooooo precious when a child remembers. He chose you for a reason. ;) . It is truly a gift for us that you are sharing your sons story. No trauma, no nightmares or bad things happening. He just...remembers.


Thank you, and I look forward to reading more. Is your book published?
 
I thought perhaps you might like this:

Here's a quote from Carol's 2nd book:
“The Tibetan Buddhists agree that the more aware and conscious a soul is, the better its choices will be for the coming life. They say a spiritually evolved soul can direct its incarnation and choose the place and family of its birth. Otherwise, they say, Karma will dictate the choice, and the soul will be drawn, as a magnet, into whatever womb resonates with all its past experiences.”
 
Hi ya Rich,


Its me, Ginger ;) ... and welcome!


I just wanted to comment on Rich's story and book ... and how fabulous his documentary is to watch...


I had the pleasure of meeting and talking to him in great lengths about his adventures. Needless to say, it was a very interesting afternoon of bizarre stories.
 
Rich,


Was Tad Wise with you on that trip to Tibet with Robert Thurman?


Just curious. I know Tad from Woodstock. His aunt, Betty Ballantine, edited my first book.


Carol
 
So, so beautiful.


Oh, and because of you posting here, I found your website and Dr. Paul Stoller, whose 16-yo son died and then through a series of startling contacts wrote a posthumous memoir through him! Galen's words brought me up from a deep slump like nothing else has lately. Thank you for your work!
 
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Carol said:
Rich,
Was Tad Wise with you on that trip to Tibet with Robert Thurman?


Just curious. I know Tad from Woodstock. His aunt, Betty Ballantine, edited my first book.


Carol
d'oh! sorry it's been so long since i've been on - just how life goes. I don't know Tad Wise, but I do know Robert Thurman - we went in 2004 - it was his fourth trip around Mt. Kailash - he read from Tad's book on the trip, I'd read it and had some amazing synergy with it.. I also ready his Tesla book, that's fun as well. Nice to see you on FB as well Carol, i'm a fan and recommend your books whenever I get the chance... best, Rich
 
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