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[oldsoul1983]

Hi everyone. I am looking for a past life coach, or someone that could help me. I believe in past lives, and think they can help you in more ways than one, but I am very lost. I've tried meditation and hypnosis but the results were not convincing enough. I don't know why this is so important for me, but I have always been fascinated and wonder why it is difficult for me to see the past... I've had cases where I *thought* it was a true match but later find out that it was only wishful thinking, the psychic was wrong, or I had the ability to *channel*. Has this happened to you? Now that I'm older, I am going through some difficult changes which might involve surgery in the future. I feel time is running out and I am still desperate to know what my past was like, but nothing comes up. Anyway, thanks for listening please keep in touch.

 

[tanguerra]

Hi oldsoul1983


Welcome to the forum. I'm sure people here can give you some good advice.


First of all, let's start with what we have. When you say you tried self-hynonsis, but the results weren't 'convincing enough' what actually happened? Tell us what you did get and we may be able to help you get more. Even just snippets and brief flashes are a good place to start. Like everything, self-hypnosis takes a bit of practice. In my experience, the biggest barrier is one's own self-doubt.

I've had cases where I *thought* it was a true match but later find out that it was only wishful thinking, the psychic was wrong, or I had the ability to *channel*.

I'm not sure what you mean by this, but in general psychics are not very reliable at telling people about their past lives. It is far better to get your own information. It's all there, locked away in your 'subconscious', but is not that hard to retrieve if you know how.

 

[Ehrenbreitstein]

Hi Oldsoul1983 and thanks for joining. I agree with Tanguerra that psychics are not reliable in finding out past life information about yourself. Only you have that information locked away inside of you.


I know it may seem like information you are getting does not seem real, and we have all been through that phase, but little details that seem like nothing at first can definitely add up to combine into a whole picture later and suddenly something you thought was just "silly" and "made-up" will make a whole lot of sense.


I know it doesn't help much, but believe me when I say that these things that you think are just your imagination are very much real. Please continue to do meditation and self-hypnosis and be sure to write everything down. I think the biggest thing you need to overcome is expectation =/= reality. I'm sure going into it you had an idea of what past life recall looked like. It's time to re-shape that expectation.


Please continue to post and let us know if you need any more help or guidance.

 

[Demi]

I don´t know about psychics and I´ve never really felt compelled to visit one, but one time I met a guy in town who had this kind of talent. So I just casually asked him if he could see my past lives. He told me a bunch of stuff which I also knew without telling him first.


For example I knew that I´ve died late december 1944 (but always felt I lived through all of 1944 and also considered maybe January 45). So I asked him, when did I die, and he said January 1945. Then I´ve told him about December, and he said, it was first week of January... And now it made sense to my why i felt as if I did live through the end of 44!


I think a good way to test psychics is don´t volunteer any information.. !

 

[Demi]

also, I know it's frustrating, but maybe you aren´t "ready"... you never know what´s there, and sometimes it´s a lot of work when it comes up because besides your own life, you have another one to deal with... that is why when i am v. busy stuff does not come up, only when having more time to rest.

 

[Totoro]

Another way to start off is to think about you and your personality and what "calls" to you; specifically things that you haven't or wouldn't have been normally exposed to in your life, but you became obsessed with anyway.


The feeling you want to home in on though should be one that doesn't require effort. Meaning that you felt cozy with it and that it was always there for you.


That may give you some pointers in the right direction as I think that usually, the clues are right in front of us and we just take them for granted.


Another thing to try is to get a rather large book and try and meditate for a few minutes and think to your self something like "please give me a clue as to where to look for my past life". And then just let yourself naturally open the book to a spot that feels right and then just the same, let your fingers fall over the pages and just stop where it feels right. Then look at the word under and around your finger and see if it's meaningful in anyway to you.


It's a method that's worked for me, but it does take some practice to get it to work.

 

[argonne1918]

I think a good way to test psychics is don´t volunteer any information.. !

You're right. That's what I do. If they ask a lot of questions before telling you anything that's reason to be suspicious.