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Eva

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Hi, my name is Eva and I'm really new to this topic. The reason I've gone searching for topics on reincarnation and such is because of a few profound things that I've expierenced. One is my three year old daughter who started mentioning her past lives but in this message I will talk about the one 'memory'and/or 'dream' that I've had that has stayed with me through out my childhood and adult life. It's as if the older I become the more stationary and vivid this memory becomes.
It's as if I'm in this vast glowing room or 'place' that is pure whiteness and amazingly vivid, I am peaceful, content and know nothing of misery. I have no concept of fear, death or humanity. I feel as if I'm a child and an older being or 'elder' entity is to my right. We are looking down. Like through this scanner screen of some sort, you can zoom in and out of countries, cities and streets, galaxies. It's like we are surveying the earth or something. I clearly remember zoning down on the location, street, nieghborhood of the people I would be born to. They were very sad and confused but I did not understand this. I said (I'm not sure if it was 'said' more like just understood) to this person, "Why is everyone so sad? I wish I could go down there and show everyone that there is no reason to be in such despair, no matter how horrible the circumstances."
In reply to me this 'elder' type person (note I refer to this being as elder because it seemed they were bigger and much wiser than I) he said (I feel male here) "There is not like it is here."
That is pretty much it. This is the first time I've spoken openly about this. I've guess I didn't want to be thought of as a 'fruit cake' or something. Also I never thought by sharing this memory I could explain it in the most glorified way that it deserves only because that's how I felt in this place. It was more a memory of extreme peace. So great that I feel this memory has helped me through alot of things. Well anyway, Thanks for reading/listening to me. Eva
 
Hi Eva - nice to meet you.

I think your dream/memory is wonderful. Have you read any Michael Newton books? You might find those resonate with you - he asks hypnotized people about between life states and indeed some people say they preview and select their lives in the company of their guides and advisors.

I loved your memory and don't think it is too strange at all, especially since I have a memory too although it was very contemplative and there was no, like, no setting or anything happening.

Cheers!
Szo
 
Dear Eva,

Sounds to me that you have had a wonderful memory of the time between lifetimes. Such memories are rare. And right this moment I can't remember anyone other than Michael Newton who has written about such experiences.

Thank you very much for sharing your story. Most of what I know about the time between lifetimes comes from mediumship sessions I have given and the conversations I have with people who recently passed over. I haven't yet had a conscious memory of the time between lifetimes (though I can feel it), so what you have shared is very special.

Blessings,

bob

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Thank you so much for responding. It was a much needed validation for me. I am so grateful to my daughter Who has given me the courage to speak up (this is the first time)and start learning about these things. I want to be what she needs. But I am very skeptical (raised baptist) and was taught to supress any thing of the like, I don't want to be that way with her. But I don't know where to turn for guidance and I don't want to pour a bunch of money into psyhics or get involved in cults,I will read Micheal Newton!
Keep reading and reading?! Thank you so much!
 
I've gone to that Bruce Moen website it is so unbelivably familiar, my whole body feels so strange when I was reading. I am beginning my true journey now. It's like I know all this or something either that or I will learn very quickly. thanks dora.
 
Eva,

I know exatly how you feel *VBS* it did it to me also...
I never find anything closer to my truth..

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Dora
 
I am so excited to be able to meet people like you three (Bob K, Sofkia, Dora) who seem to have so much spiritual knowledge. I am so thankful to you all, I am suddenly so ecstatic, thankfully Eva!
 
I am a woman from Norway who also has had the same experience as you. I will read the books mentioned here. I have tryed to search the web, but this is the first time I have found it described as similare as I had it.
This memory has followed me "always". As long as I can remember anyway.
I remember looking down on my mother and father sitting together. It feels very stressfull because I have to choose fast. I can't wait much longer, and I have a hard time being able to make up my mind of two families. I "travel" between them, watching them, thinking of the positive and negative parts of each of them. Some things I have to experience, but there are different ways to go through them depending on which family I would choose. I would like my parents, everything is ready for me there..More likely to forfill my "plan", but there are something "bad" with one of them. I want to choose the other family, but I can't. It would not be good for me, and I would not have growth there. It would be like a life wasted...I would not come any further in my development. It was a woman. I watched her.
She was playing with some children on the floor. She had a smile on her face, leaning to one arm, and making sircles or something with the other. I felt so good watching her, peaceful...Like waching your child playing..
I could stayed there forever, but I knew I had to hurry...orelse it would be too late.
The people I should meet would be older, and I could never have this moment or chance again. Time was faster on "earth", than here where I was..It was black around me, but not dark. It was lightened with a color in blue or something..
I did not want to go, but I have to. I have to follow "the rest"..the one I had started my jurney with..
In my memory there also was a man. He was waiting for me. When I had made up my mind, I had to pass him..he looked at me with sad eyes because I had brought something I should not. But he did'nt say anything..his eyes sayed it all..I suddenly understood the meaning of why we should leave things behind when we left. I would have to pay a high price for this...

I just wanted to share some of my memories although my english are not so good.
I really don't care if anyone think it sound "crazy", because I know it is the truth
and truth can't be crazy.
I also have experienced memories of past life, and I am searching to confirm my memories. I have found many things untill now, and it is really exciting. I am like you said ecstatic. :-)
 
Dear Marie,

Please visit this website which is all about pre-birth memories and pre-birth contact: http://www.light-hearts.com/index.htm

I think you will find much there which is comforting and confirming for you.

Blessings,

Bob



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Healing the Heart of Humanity, One Heart at a time

You're invited to my website -
http://www.youaredivine.com
 
Dear Marie, that is an exquisite memory! (By the way your english is great, don't worry) reading your story I could visualize in my mind what you remembered. I know it is your truth, isn't it wonderful to know you can feel that 'memory' all the time. I am thankful. So what do you think that you have 'taken' of something that you shouldn't have. Would you say it was that before/afterlife knowledge? God Bless Eva
 
Light Hearts (that bob reccommended) is a good website, Elisabeth Hallett used to post here awhile back. She may still read occasionally, I don't know, but I do know she hasn't been active in awhile. I believe she is working on her next book at the moment.

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Galadriel aka Megan.

There is no such thing as too many books. Too few bookcases can become a problem, however.



[This message has been edited by Galadriel (edited 06-03-2001).]
 
Prebirth memories

Reincarnation has always been an open subject within my family because my father was a believer and he treated mine and my sisters past life memories with respect. I have four children of my own and they have all expressed past life memories.
However I wanted to discuss my youngest child and only son because he is the only one of my children who has talked about preBIRTH memories of being in the womb.
When I was 20 weeks pregnant with my son I developed a rare and usually fatal for the fetus condition wherein I lost all of the amniotic fluid due to a tear in the membrane that contains the baby and the fluid surrounding it. About ten days after this happened my son turned and went breech, plugging off the tear with his buttocks and permitting the fluid to reaccumulate. The position he assumed is what's called a single footling breech, due to the fact that one leg is flexed and crossed in the usual breech position but the other one is stuck straight out in an extended position.
My son is now 8 years old. I have never spoken to him about the circumstances surrounding his birth, as much because I didn't think he would understand the complexities of it as any other reason.
However, as a result of his prebirth conditions the leg that was in the "footling" extended position was contracted into that position when he was born and he could not bend his knee.
On May 9th of this year he finally had corrective surgery to correct this birth defect.
In April, on a presurgical visit to the doctor, he told the doctor an amazing tale. He told him that he REMEMBERED that when he was inside me that one day something happened and that all of a sudden he couldn't move and that he was being horribly squeezed. With a tremendous effort he gathered all of his energy and turned his body so that he could stick out his foot and PUSH against the wall so that he wouldn't be squeezed out of me and so that he could use his body to plug off the place where the fluid was escaping. The doctor stated that he had never heard such a complete and accurate description of premature rupture of the membranes from a child before. He was particularly amazed at my son's statement that he had stuck out his leg so that he wouldn't get "squeezed out" and die from being born too early.
To be honest, I too was floored by this revelation from my son. He is VERY bright, reads three grades ahead of his grade level and does math two grades above level. He taught himself to read when he was 4 years old.
Has anyone ever heard of anything like this before?
 
Hi,

And welcome to the forum. WOW what a beautiful story! A friend of mine has written several books about prebirth communication. Her name is Elisabeth Hallett.
Soul Treak

Do a forum search of her name..her web-site is on the board somewhere in this sectiion.

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Love,
Deborah

Lifes experiences weave a tapestry of knowledge




[This message has been edited by Deborah (edited 07-24-2001).]
 
WOW

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Galadriel aka Megan.

There is no such thing as too many books. Too few bookcases can become a problem, however.
 
Thank you, Deborah. I have found her website and bookmarked it so I can explore it at leisure.
I wanted to add something that Ms.Hallett's website brought to mind.
When the rupture happened the initial reaction from the first perinatal specialist that my OB doctor consulted was that my only real option was to abort the pregnancy. His reaction isn't really as shocking as it may sound because 85% of women who havr this condition miscarry anyway. Of the remaining 15%, the farther they get away from the event the more apt they are to miscarry. The perinatal doctor was afraid that if I didn't miscarry, the baby would die in utero.
I totally refused to accept this verdict. I KNEW my baby was not only fine but that he would be BORN fine. I cannot tell you HOW I knew this but I believed it with every ounce of my being. I had family members and friends, even my own husband, accusing me of being unrealistic and in denial. I had to find a second perinatal doctor that would accept me as a patient and take care of me to my baby's birth because the first one refused to. When I asked my OB doctor to fax a referral to the second perinatal doctor he told me that he felt I was being foolish but that he would do what I requested.
Throughout the next 16 weeks that I went before my son was born I carried that unshakeable conviction with me all of the time. They sonogrammed him weekly so they could monitor the fluid levels and track his development and with every sono I watched him grow. He ended up being born at 36 weeks, a bit premature but more then capable of a normal birth.
After he was born the perinatal doctor who cared for me said that my baby was an example of why doctors should not play God. My baby was admittedly a miracle. Prior to my son's birth the longest they had a woman in their practice go after a premature rupture of the membranes was 8 weeks. But he was proof that miracles DO happen.
Looking back on the experience (and I have told this to many people) the feeling I remember the most was that I was not fighting FOR my baby but that I was fighting WITH him. We were partners, my child and I, and we worked hand in hand to get him into the world whole and healthy. Even at the time of his birth, as they were prepping me in the labor room (he was born C-section) I had a resident come in and tell me that even if he was born alive there was still a possibility he could die from undergrowth of the lungs due to lack of amniotic fluid. (The fluid is essential for proper growth of a baby's lungs. It's what they use to "practice breathe" in the womb.) I almost hate to say this but rather then scaring me, it went in one ear and out the other. I still had the unshakeable conviction that my son was going to be born just fine. And you know what? He was.
 
Here's the pre-birth communication website:
http://www.light-hearts.com/index.htm

You should definitely consider sharing your story there.

Blessings,

Bob


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Healing the Heart of Humanity, One Heart at a time

You're invited to my website -
http://www.youaredivine.com/
 
What an incredible story! Great work listening to your self and your inner knowing. What a determined soul your child must be!

love and light,

anashanti
 
Dear Caitlin

Well as everyone else has already expressed...WOW what a beautiful story, reading this thread made my day, I'm so glad you came on and shared it with us...thank you.
 
Wow, that is quite a remarkable story!

Congratulations to both of you on following your intuition and on 'knowing' the right thing to do.



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Hope you're all having a great day,
Take Care,
-Kathy. :)
 
You're welcome Caitlan,

Your sons memories and his physical presentation of those memories are truly fascinating -- his story lends credance to the fact that children know much before they are born.

I sent an e-mail to Elisabeth...I really think you should contact her.

Thanks for the link Bob..stinkin stinkin webtv -cannot do that or at least have not figured it out yet. Boy will it be good to get home.

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Love,
Deborah

Lifes experiences weave a tapestry of knowledge
 
Ahhhh what a sweetie - it's always so nice to put a face to a post.You have three lovely kids with LOADS of hair...LOL.




[This message has been edited by Kelly (edited 07-25-2001).]
 
Prebirth memories

I have recently recommened this book twice in the Childrens Past Life Forum, so I thought maybe I should do it here too. It's Life before Life by Helen Wambach She hypnotised 750 persons and asked them about their birth and prebirth memories. I wrote more about it here: Life before Life

I thought this was a classic so that all of you already read it. :)
 
Major pre-birth memories from cousins 11, 10

So last weekend I spent at my aunt's house helping plan out my mom's memorial service. My cousin lives with her with her two boys ages 11 and 10. My aunt is very into meditation, talking with her spirit guide, into tarot, etc., etc. Plus, her house is very...uhh...active spiritually.

So, anyway, I spent a rather complicated weekend helping plan out my mom's memorial service scanning in old photos and helping out with the program. It was kinda hard.

Then on Saturday night, she tried to meditate me to the Other Side (for lack of a better word), which she seems to astral to quite often. I didn't get very far, but both she and my little cousin, who is 11, contacted, seem to know my spirit guide, a young man apparently, and both say that my spirit guide and my family on the other side want to talk to me.

What is on-topic to this forum, is that my little cousin has strong pre-birth memories of his sister who was still born. He talks with her often in dreams and they are buddies. Also, he had a really strong breakthrough - now you must understand at this point, there were orbs flying about, lights flickering, etc., so I have no doubt something was indeed happening - he felt that our family rescued his little brother, who is nine months younger than him, from the void, which is a place of darkness, and indeed when they've tried to regress him, any pre-birth memory he has is "living in the dark" and he is afraid of the dark. It was really sweet that he felt bad about ever being mean to his little brother, and my grandma (on the other side) seemed to be giving my cousin a dressing down about ever being short with him again, which was interesting.

Also, he got a message that my grandma told him that when she died she wanted to go, but was worried about what would happen with us when she died. It was really sweet.

I just feel badly because they say that these people on the other side want to contact me, I feel like I cannot for some reason. Like my third eye is blind (haha, to bring a rock band into it). I've heard it is a normal part of grief to not have immediate contact with deceased loved ones, like a sign that they are okay for a while.

And, they also seem to feel quite adamantly that this is my first incarnation because they all have the feeling that they have been here before. But, I disagree. I have distinct memories of many lifetimes. I cannot say many of them are positive, but I have seen myself in one of them (a young black boy, a slave during the Civil War period perhaps). It was just a glimpse.

So, I don't know what to think at this point. My big thing to deal with right now is my mother's passing and few understand, so I do indeed feel lost and feel like at this point, I don't know how to handle life here right now, and it's funny. My little cousin interacts with me like I've known him before, and spiritually like he is older than me, though he is perfectly normal in every way when he's not remembering his past lives or pre-birth memories.

Anybody have this experience, when it seems like their "third eye" is blind. I'll tell you I've always considered myself somewhat psychic. Indeed, they had some problems come up which I've known about for months and saw them confirmed right before my eyes. But this made me feel like a muggle at Hogwarts or something. It made Sylvia Browne and John Edward seem like rank amateurs in comparison.

I think there was too much pressure, and it was too personal. Perhaps I don't need an audience, dunno. Anyway, one of the interesting things my cousin (who is 11) said was that he quite adamant that he felt my aunt was "cheating" and "peaking" at our "birthday present" in the future. (Now, they regularly astral to this place on a whim).

Apologies if this is too out there. I know that indeed even suggesting meditation for a child on this issue violates some principles of Carol's book, but I am not their mother or grandmother, so I can't control that. But they do indeed have strong pre-birth and past life memories that come and go.

Now I just feel so lost myself, and find it frustrating when I know in my heart that I have past lives, even if they might not have been the most successful, it makes things odd.

Very interesting.

Larry
 
Hi Larry,

I know that indeed even suggesting meditation for a child on this issue violates some principles of Carol's book,
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I am not sure where you got this impression. I have spoken to Carol on several occasions and attended several of her lectures. Meditating with a child is OK. I have done it with my own children with great success.

I am on break at the College - have to fly through; my best suggestion - when you do a meditation you have to bring the 3rd eye and the heart center- together in order to have clear inner vision. ;)
 
Deborah,

Okay then. :) It's just that I remember reading here on the forums that it was best for the child to initiate any past life or pre-birth memories. Sometimes, they think my aunt is being silly for regressing them or at times they don't remember much, but then again they will say or remember things from pre-birth, being born, or past lives on their own quite frequently and interact as if they are older than they are.

I must confess I haven't yet read Carol's book, though it's very much on my list. Obviously been through quite a bit in recent months. So please forgive my ignorance.

Larry
 
Hi Larry!

I found reading Carol's books very comforting, proof that death is not the end, proof that we can and do come back.
 
Please feel welcome here Larry. Any questions are OK, I tend to always be in a hurry when I post during the week. I didn't mean to be curt or short. I was only sharing. :)
 
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