Lady2 said:
I agree...Perhaps reincarnating here repeatedly is to learn things from all different perspectives. And without actually living it, we cannot fully understand it.
This is the post I can resonate with most here. So...yep...that and Shakespeare's comment about "All the world is a stage and all of us merely players". We play many parts in our time/s. Beggarman, rich man, king, male, female, etc, etc. and until we "play them" personally then we aren't going to fully comprehend what someone else's part in the "play" is like from the inside.
I don't tend to focus on achieving perfection. I definitely don't believe we are all perfect to start with and its a case of returning to that perfect state. I believe we, slowly and painstakingly, work our way to perfection in the first place over a number of lifetimes.
That's what I think it's about - ie gradually achieving perfection and gradually having "played every part" we wish to play.
In the Material World analogies would be that, as a woman, I have various types of clothing for the "person" I wish to be on that occasion - casual, hippy-ish, matching my (this time) background. Depends what purpose I wish to achieve that day - do I wish to just get on with doing various tasks (then make that casual clothing), am I going to be taking part in more "New Age" type activities (then make that hippyish clothing), do I need to "make my point/state my case/achieve a Result of some description" (make that clothing to match my this time "background" - ie that casually elegant middle-class way of dressing that says "I DO know whats what and have a reasonable level of confidence - so don't 'try anything on' that you shouldn't or expect me to put up with low standards". Yep....a very "real world" consideration, but combination of dressing that way/etc does cut off a number of potential problems at the outset and thus makes life easier if I'm doing something like dealing with "officialdom"/troublesome firms/etc).LOL
A recent real world example of different "lives" giving different experiences too is one I've encountered recently. Where I come from, I guess I got rather used to Right and Wrong being judged objectively by the community as a whole (small university city). Where I am now is a small rural-ish community and I was recently shocked to read of someone committing a criminal offence that has impacted back on other people too and vocal community support has been given to the criminal. There is no reason for this at all. It seems to boil down to the, oft-repeated, statement as to how he is a "local person"

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. Hence an outlook I hadn't encountered before coming here (to what is, in effect, a new life during the same lifetime). It is wrong to support a wrongdoer just because he is "one of us", but its an experience to watch this mindset in operation and one I wouldn't have believed was possible if I hadn't started a "second life" within this same lifetime.