Who are these people she talks about?

[momtotwins2]

My youngest daughter of 4 has always told us she had another family but until now we have put this down to her imagination. Over the past 6 months she has began to describe places and the inside of buildings that she couldnt possible know, given details of our local village that when I checked on an older map were correct and has now began to name people. We have always joked that she has been here before, but this is very serious to her. She seems to be describing two other seperate lives. One she tells us was when she was living in the 1960's and another when Queen Victoria was ruling England - I didnt now she knew any thing about Queen Victoria! She has described things that she could possibly know such as who her neighbours were by name, her mother and father dying of consumtion. She recently asked me if she could have a new sister, when I asked why she said that she had had a sister called Sarah once who died and Sarah was lonely and wanted to come back like her!!! Yesterday she asked me if I loved her and when I asked why she said that it was ok she loved me too but not a much as her first mom! I would love to know if she has been here before but when ever I ask for the last names of the people she talks about, she tells me very grown up, that second names are not important where she comes from! Her siblings find her a bit creepy especially when she tells their friends info. Would love to hear what you think.

 

[pixarfan]

Sounds like definite past lives to me!

 

[Nightrain]

Her siblings find her a bit creepy especially when she tells their friends info. Would love to hear what you think.

Hi Momtotwins, and a warm welcome to the Forum!


First of all, I think it is imperative that you spend whatever time you may have (probably quite limited with twins) reading Carol Bowman's books, "Childrens Past Lives", and "Return From Heaven". You will find a great deal that you can relate to. But, most important, you will find insight and guidance on how to best deal with the situation. You are at the very threshold of discoveries that will change your life, and if you let it pass with only a glance, you may loose this opportunity forever. It is also to your daughter's best advantage. She needs to know that someone understands.

 

[momtotwins2]

Many thanks for your reply. It is such clear details she describes. She describes her first family as Grandma, Papa and Momma and when asked why she told us that she was brought up to show respect! This coming from a 4 year old!


We have had coversations in which she tells us about how her second dad ( notice she calls this one dad and not Papa) and sister Sarah died in a crash in a small red car. She has desribed the events afterwards, the funeral,going to live with her Nan, the family next door including the persons surname and surprisingly her 16th birthday! The only thing she will not talk about is how she died in either of her two other lives she just clams up and refuses to talk about it.


Whilst over in the park with friends last week I had to take her to one side as she was frightening friends by telling them that she could see people close by them and describing them to the shocked person. She told me that it was ok as she had met most of these people before she had come to live with me!

 

[Nightrain]

It is such clear details she describes.

I can't stress adequately enough how important it is to write everything down with as much detail as possible, because I guarantee you will forget things that you are certain at the time not to forget. Furthermore, your daughter will also loose these conscious memories of hers at some time in the near future for some unexplainable reason. However, they will not be lost to her subconscious mind. Those subconscious memories can still affect your daughter at some point in the future, so it would be to your advantage to know the possible reasons ahead of time.

 

[Delonada]

Hi, and welcome to the forums!


I think Nighttrain has touched upon the important aspects so I am not sure what I can add.


I think it is imperative that you do not dismiss your daughter's memories as she might be subconsciously trying to work through them. If you think she might be agitating over some memories just remind her that you are there for her.

 

[Mama2HRB]

I wonder if she ever came back to post an update. Fascinating story.

 

[hydrolad]

Yes, I’m fascinated also, especially the part where she sees other “people” around her playmates, in addition to her past lives.


Even at this early age, she sounds well gifted in psychic phenomena, I wonder what other “gifts” she might also have, perhaps seeing Aura's around people?


Let’s hope the Mother of this little girl checks in again one day in the future!