I've been in Florida since '81 and the bay area since '89. Florida is not a stranger to hurricanes, but it's mostly the east coast that takes the most direct hits. What normally happens on that side is they blow to the west (into the wind so to speak), but almost on a parabolic curve, towards the north, because of the Coriolis effect. The initial hit is damaging, but limited and they then fizzle out some what and hang around as storms with lots of rain up the East US coast.
What happened with Milton was is that it was almost a worst case scenario. It started in the west, rapidly intensified and blew east, with the wind at it's back and no land or anything to draw power away from it to buffer a direct hit. So, yeah, it grew huge and with nothing to stop it, tore right through Florida.
The eye went literally mere miles under tampa bay. That was a good thing as it actually drew water out of the bay. if it had gone higher, most of tampa / st pete would be under water right now. I honestly can't imagine how bad that would have been.
Around here right now, I've avoided going out for the past week or so. There hasn't been anywhere to go, but most of the county is without power and street lights are still out. It's a bit like mad max.
I'm very lucky as I have some roof damage that needs to be looked at. But other than that, I've been good, just stressed.