That's a flawed analogy because going to school is not always a choice. In Germany, there is actual school coersion. The police are allowed to escort unwilling children to school if they don't want to and I don't believe that reincarnation will be forced that violently onto us.
Good old thread - thank you for bringing it up, Lia.
I think any analogy between school-coercion and reincarnation is far-fetched and irrelevant.
I think Michael Newton's mentioning that the unwilling (to reincarnate) souls are somehow strongly "encouraged" to reincarnate nevertheless, is a good basis for discussion.
In practice, it might mean, that a couple of times your lack of desire to reincarnate will be tolerated, but after that some more drastic measures might be taken towards you to make you change your mind.
I, personally, would like to know, what consequences might have not the refusal to reincarnate at all, but the refusal to do so immediately, to postpone the reincarnation.
I suspect this was just my case before my last reincarnation, when I decided to stay some extra 20 years by the side of my invalid cousin to help him to organize better his terrestrial life after they killed me in the war. And taking into account, that there are strong indications that there was also in play my soul group of about 4-5 other young guys who were killed together with me. It is supposed (?) that the members of the same soul group die and reincarnate together (?), or I'm wrong?
IMHO.
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