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Kristopher

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reincarnation is accepted?

I think the best theory is that many children do indeed talk about reincarnation all over the world. But due to a lot of places not accepting it, or even giving it any thought, the parents may simply ignore the children. There are many theories that could explain this so I would like to see what you think?
 
I think quite often in areas where reincarnation is not accepted the parents think the child is just being a child and making up stories. I know I was guilty of that in some instances with my children. Most adults simply do not really listen to what children are saying.
 
While not strictly past life related, I remember clearly being 4 and 5 years old and getting incredibly frustrated with how every time I would try to join an adult conversation at a family gathering I would be shuffled down to the basement with my brother. Eventually I just stopped trying because nobody listened to what I had to say. My grandparents, particularly in my fathers side believed very strongly that children should be seen but not heard even though I was a top of the class child back then. I also had a problem with speaking correctly due to partial deafness as a child so it was probably too much effort to listen as well.


It's just like that story I just shared about the 3 year old who 'operated a crane when he was grownup'. That comment probably wouldn't even register to 99% of the adult population. I go to other message boards and it's unbelievable how many adults are completely blind to unfamiliar ideas even when they are rubbed in their face with them. Ideas like reincarnation are simply outside their realm of possibilities.
 
Next lifetime I promise I will listen to my kids when they talk. I can only imagine what my girls said that I missed because I was just not paying attention when they were really young ...
 
Mr. Mike said:
While not strictly past life related, I remember clearly being 4 and 5 years old and getting incredibly frustrated with how every time I would try to join an adult conversation at a family gathering I would be shuffled down to the basement with my brother. Eventually I just stopped trying because nobody listened to what I had to say. My grandparents, particularly in my fathers side believed very strongly that children should be seen but not heard even though I was a top of the class child back then. I also had a problem with speaking correctly due to partial deafness as a child so it was probably too much effort to listen as well.
That sounds like my childhood for the most part. I found it very frustrating that somehow kids would be relegated to the kids table or "the adults are talking" :grr: However in my mom's large Italian family, kids were always welcome.


I think largely that issues like reincarnation have a bad rep in western culture for a couple of reasons. The first I think gets handed down from the post war, atomic age in that there's an egg head for the complicated stuff and the average work a day Joe doesn't know anything. I think too in that changing world, people fell back on their rank and file religion with the same expectation, that the experts are in charge.


The second is that in the cultures that do believe in reincarnation, they tend to be so different from our own, there's so much culture shock that it's hard to not throw out the baby with the bathwater.


The other thing though that may make children's speech difficult to interpret as being indicative of a past life is that it may also not be obvious as such either. Many things have the potential to be overlooked without knowing the larger context. Without them, a child may simply appear to have a natural ability, a fear, or just an active imagination.


For instance my son excels at math, art and building things out of legos and stuff. I could easily sit back and play the proud parent without giving it a second thought. But I know better since I have a copy of a newspaper article in which my son in his former life said he really wished he had been something more useful in life like an engineer.


To answer the original question though, I think sadly, that it may be viewed much like within our culture here. A majority of people won't give it any recognition other than a vague sense of cultural acceptance. I think few if any, just like here, have stand out cases. Those that do, have such for a reason, but the difference there may be that there is more help available to them in the form of tribal elders and spiritual leaders where as here in contrast, we regard it as a pseudo science and fringe, carnival-esque side show.
 
It's too often dismissed as childish imagination. Unfortunately, I grew up in the opposite extreme where everything was somehow tied to a past life. I learned to keep my more cherished PL memories to myself, because almost any mention would invoke massive over-analysis and projection.
 
I think that an equal amount of kids everywhere recall past life memories, but that the difference is the cultural acceptance.


I'm not sure about Eastern cultures, but it seems to me that here in the West, people tend to look at children as inferior and thus shoot down anything they have to say while labeling it imagination. I also think that due to this "children are inferior" attitude, if a child begins to talk about something the parent/guardian/adult does not understand themselves, it's going to make the adult in the situation feel inferior. And since they view the child as less than themselves, feeling inferior is going to cause them to react badly.


I've had this situation come up multiple times with my own grandparents regarding my career exploration choices and what I want to go to college for. They make a point of saying "something realistic besides all this physics stuff". Everything I have my sights set on is physics of some sort.


I also think the persistence of instilling x religion in the child by some parents, may play a part in this. I want to say I was brought up being bombarded with such influence, but considering my family's belief system never made any sense to me, I can't really apply that to myself.
 
"something realistic besides all this physics stuff".
I'm sorry. This just made iced tea come out my nose. Doesn't physics deal with, well, pretty much the physical world, in other words reality? LMAO
 
Kristopher said:
reincarnation is accepted?
I think the best theory is that many children do indeed talk about reincarnation all over the world. But due to a lot of places not accepting it, or even giving it any thought, the parents may simply ignore the children. There are many theories that could explain this so I would like to see what you think?
Well, a good example is my own family. My mom was raised in a family that do NOT believe in reincarnation, and though she had several memories as a child of her PL's she was told she was being 'silly' or outright lying. She however raised me and my brother in a home that was open to the idea of reincarnation, we both had dozens of memories as a children, and I still get them every once and while to this day.


We both agree that when a child is not told they are being silly they believe in themselves more, which in turn makes it easier for those memories to surface - let alone be noticed, heard or remembered later. :thumbsup:
 
Shiftkitty said:
I'm sorry. This just made iced tea come out my nose. Doesn't physics deal with, well, pretty much the physical world, in other words reality? LMAO
LMAO


That's what I was thinking and what I wanted to say, but it'd be easier to argue with a brick wall.


And then they wonder why I settle for arguing with myself rather than a physical entity within my immediate vicinity : angel


I do agree Lady2 that if you raise kids with an open mind and don't dismiss it as imagination or lying, they are going to believe in themselves more and remember more. And also be more likely to share more.
 
I too think it's because the parents are more receptive and don't brush it off as imagination/fantasy.

Mammatus said:
I do agree Lady2 that if you raise kids with an open mind and don't dismiss it as imagination or lying, they are going to believe in themselves more and remember more. And also be more likely to share more.
That's a very good point, and one I wish I'd have been aware of when my son was younger. I wish I would have paid attention to the things that he said more and not brushed it off as childhood imagination or just being cute.


It could have been his imagination, or so much more, but at this point I don't think I will know, as another effect of my not being more aware when he was younger, is that now as he's in his teen years, he cannot be bothered with such 'nonsense' as he puts it. When he scoffs at my PL books and belief in reincarnation, I wish all the more I'd have handled that differently.
 
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