Hi,
I joined the forum because I have a friend (let's call her Maddie) who is 100% convinced she remembers a past life in WWII and I have a few questions.
My view on reincarnation has always been that many past life claims stem from boredom or a subconscious desire to dissociate from painful situations (difficult families, trauma, etc.). I hope no one here takes any offense to that as it isn't intended as criticism. I'm honestly pro 'reincarnation is something that can happen,' but the idea that an introverted girl who has a crush on me is a reincarnated Nazi sounds like something out of a comedy sketch.
Maddie is intelligent and has a lot of good personality traits. She's not a cruel or mean-spirited person, doesn't play mind games, and is very honest and open with people she trusts. According to her, she's been convinced of this since she was 12 and she's now 19. Her grandmother claims that she said several James Leininger-esque things as a child and this has reinforced her belief in her past life. She isn't one of those 'Nazi UFO' types and comes across pretty grounded. She's also not a huge fan of the SS leadership class and has shared some very interesting thoughts on that (namely, that the SS prevented any rapprochement with Britain, France, and the Slavic peasant folk and that Himmler should have been fired).
I'm the only person (aside from her mom) who she's told about her past life. She told me she tried talking about it online a few years ago but that she ended up pretending to be the reincarnation of Nazis other than who she actually thinks she was because she was 'kind of having a breakdown.' If anyone here had to deal with that, I'm sorry your time was wasted.
There are videos of the man she thinks she was and she has very similar facial expressions. It's actually kind of fascinating because she doesn't seem to consciously be trying to do it. It's possible she's imprinted on him and is unintentionally mimicking his mannerisms, but that's typically a trait displayed by women with mild forms of Asperger's and she doesn't come across as having that.
She's younger than me, so I was never close to her until the last year or so, but I have known her since she was about 11. She was a very quiet and thoughtful girl who loved to draw. She never seemed mentally ill, although she has been struggling with off & on depression for the last two years. She also has been dressing in a tomboyish manner and says she feels a form of dysphoria around her chest (I just assumed this was from being introverted and not liking extra attention, I also assumed her depression and her past life claim stemmed from an attempt to rationalize a case of Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria induced by bullying - she insists that her past life memories are the causal factor rather than a symptom). Having gotten to know her, she's doing a lot better than she was a few months ago.
I'm honestly also a bit 'reincarnationed out.' She says she's been thinking about this every day (according to her) for about 7 years and finally has someone to talk to. I love WWII and was obsessed with it myself at one point, but hearing about how Goering should have listened to her about X or how Hitler had 'narcissistic tendencies' every single day is a lot. I work full time and live several hours away from her so it's a lot to be on the phone talking about Nazis all the time.
I guess what I'd like to know is:
1. In cases of women who believe they were male in their previous lifetime (regardless of whether they believe they were Germans, Englishmen, Russians, etc.) and who are attracted to men, does the gender dysphoric issue tend to dissipate with time? I'm not mad at her for thinking she was a guy, although she seemed to think that I would be,. My issue is that I dislike self-flagellating behavior. In many ways, her attitude reminds me of girls with Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria. She's not a female jock and has a lot of feminine interests and behaviors (she loves baby birds). She can also be a bit tomboyish at times. I'm trying to figure out what's going on inside her head and so far her explanations have been a bit convoluted.
2. If anyone has any information on Alfred Rosenberg, Max Wunsch (Hitler's SS bodyguard, the one who apparently had a feud with Hitler's cook), or Karl Bodenschatz it would be appreciated. Please tell me what you know about them. Seriously, want to know everything and anything about them.
I joined the forum because I have a friend (let's call her Maddie) who is 100% convinced she remembers a past life in WWII and I have a few questions.
My view on reincarnation has always been that many past life claims stem from boredom or a subconscious desire to dissociate from painful situations (difficult families, trauma, etc.). I hope no one here takes any offense to that as it isn't intended as criticism. I'm honestly pro 'reincarnation is something that can happen,' but the idea that an introverted girl who has a crush on me is a reincarnated Nazi sounds like something out of a comedy sketch.
Maddie is intelligent and has a lot of good personality traits. She's not a cruel or mean-spirited person, doesn't play mind games, and is very honest and open with people she trusts. According to her, she's been convinced of this since she was 12 and she's now 19. Her grandmother claims that she said several James Leininger-esque things as a child and this has reinforced her belief in her past life. She isn't one of those 'Nazi UFO' types and comes across pretty grounded. She's also not a huge fan of the SS leadership class and has shared some very interesting thoughts on that (namely, that the SS prevented any rapprochement with Britain, France, and the Slavic peasant folk and that Himmler should have been fired).
I'm the only person (aside from her mom) who she's told about her past life. She told me she tried talking about it online a few years ago but that she ended up pretending to be the reincarnation of Nazis other than who she actually thinks she was because she was 'kind of having a breakdown.' If anyone here had to deal with that, I'm sorry your time was wasted.
There are videos of the man she thinks she was and she has very similar facial expressions. It's actually kind of fascinating because she doesn't seem to consciously be trying to do it. It's possible she's imprinted on him and is unintentionally mimicking his mannerisms, but that's typically a trait displayed by women with mild forms of Asperger's and she doesn't come across as having that.
She's younger than me, so I was never close to her until the last year or so, but I have known her since she was about 11. She was a very quiet and thoughtful girl who loved to draw. She never seemed mentally ill, although she has been struggling with off & on depression for the last two years. She also has been dressing in a tomboyish manner and says she feels a form of dysphoria around her chest (I just assumed this was from being introverted and not liking extra attention, I also assumed her depression and her past life claim stemmed from an attempt to rationalize a case of Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria induced by bullying - she insists that her past life memories are the causal factor rather than a symptom). Having gotten to know her, she's doing a lot better than she was a few months ago.
I'm honestly also a bit 'reincarnationed out.' She says she's been thinking about this every day (according to her) for about 7 years and finally has someone to talk to. I love WWII and was obsessed with it myself at one point, but hearing about how Goering should have listened to her about X or how Hitler had 'narcissistic tendencies' every single day is a lot. I work full time and live several hours away from her so it's a lot to be on the phone talking about Nazis all the time.
I guess what I'd like to know is:
1. In cases of women who believe they were male in their previous lifetime (regardless of whether they believe they were Germans, Englishmen, Russians, etc.) and who are attracted to men, does the gender dysphoric issue tend to dissipate with time? I'm not mad at her for thinking she was a guy, although she seemed to think that I would be,. My issue is that I dislike self-flagellating behavior. In many ways, her attitude reminds me of girls with Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria. She's not a female jock and has a lot of feminine interests and behaviors (she loves baby birds). She can also be a bit tomboyish at times. I'm trying to figure out what's going on inside her head and so far her explanations have been a bit convoluted.
2. If anyone has any information on Alfred Rosenberg, Max Wunsch (Hitler's SS bodyguard, the one who apparently had a feud with Hitler's cook), or Karl Bodenschatz it would be appreciated. Please tell me what you know about them. Seriously, want to know everything and anything about them.